r/DeadBedrooms

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A support group for Redditors who are coping with a relationship that is seriously lacking in sexual intimacy.

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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Positive Progress Post Seeking Advice General Discussion Success Story Vent Only, No Advice Support Only, No Advice M Fixed DB F Trigger Warning! Vent, Advice Welcome M54HL 37HLM John Mayer is kind of a douche HLM40 been 2 long Vent, advice welcome. 43M-HL, Married 12 Yrs to 40F-LL Moderator Announcement HLM collecting incel downvotes HL vent Trigger Warning - No Advice HL venting, be supportive

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to r/DeadBedrooms by GulfCoastSteel

18 hours ago

Hoping for a better year!

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to r/DeadBedrooms by AmIBroken12

1 day ago

I think my man is addicted to porn...

Seeking Advice

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to r/DeadBedrooms by James007D

2 days ago

5 months of nothing

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to r/DeadBedrooms by Altruistic-Tree-9561

2 days ago

Breaking a dry spell

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to r/DeadBedrooms by annoyinglonely

2 days ago

Can you come back from the damage?

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3 days ago 1 comment

to r/DeadBedrooms by Medical-Bed-9222

2 days ago

My wife wants affection but not sex

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3 days ago 1 comment

to r/DeadBedrooms by wingking9

2 days ago

New here - dead bedroom is starting to affect my marriage and mental wellbeing

Seeking Advice

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to r/DeadBedrooms by Jamespg614

2 days ago

Left on read

Vent, Advice Welcome

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to r/DeadBedrooms by Bubbly_Ebb_368

2 days ago

Yeahh..It's starting to be a No for me.

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to r/DeadBedrooms by PlanExisting8424

4 days ago

Married 20+ Years, Sexless for 7: Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy with My Husband's Blessing

Support Only, No Advice

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5 days ago

to r/DeadBedrooms by Ordinary-Ad-8034

2 days ago

Sometimes it's amazing... But why?

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6 days ago 1 comment

to r/DeadBedrooms by Brownie-lover-7142

2 days ago

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Role reversal

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to r/DeadBedrooms by No-Figure-8242

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to r/DeadBedrooms by xoibsurferx

5 days ago

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Wife doesn’t want me but wanted her AP - riding in this storm storm is rough

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6 days ago

to r/DeadBedrooms by SSDGREDRUMED

5 days ago

I asked for sex for Christmas

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6 days ago 1 comment

to r/DeadBedrooms by Lovedandlost2024

2 days ago

My partner cheated on me

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to r/DeadBedrooms by DecentGlass9066

2 days ago

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Using sex as a tool

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to r/DeadBedrooms by Nothanksimgood1972

5 days ago

I’m going for it.

Vent, Advice Welcome

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to r/DeadBedrooms by Mental-Science1288

2 days ago

Infrequency of sex led to ED

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to r/DeadBedrooms by lovemyson2017

1 week ago

Have you ever felt trapped? (Poem inside)

Vent, Advice Welcome

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1 week ago

to r/DeadBedrooms by funbunny77

2 days ago

Have you listened to the latest Diary of a CEO talk with Susan Bratton? She gives relationship and sex advice

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1 week ago 2 comments

to r/DeadBedrooms by Nothanksimgood1972

1 week ago

It’s great… except it’s not.

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to r/DeadBedrooms by Emergency_Bag_8259

1 week ago

I saw this coming.

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to r/DeadBedrooms by Cumwithme666

1 week ago

Am I over reacting?

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to r/DeadBedrooms by Good-Pear-9614

1 week ago

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Few hours left.. no sign of birthday sex

Vent, Advice Welcome

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