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Iām 36 F married to my partner 44 M for 12 years. My health situation led to our DB situation (unlikely to change ever) since 8 years. I recently learned that my partner cheated on me for the last 2.5 years. He immediately begged me to reconcile and I believed him saying that the AP took advantage of his vulnerability due to our situation. I love him so much and want to grow old with him. But Iām not sure whether he really is speaking the truth that he wants to be with me and this is the life he really wants. Please shed some light.
So you caused the DB situation for 8 years and he decided he needed intimacy after 5 1/2 and got himself an AP. If you both want the marriage to work, why not make it an open relationship? Why does anyone need to be blamed, be at fault or any of it? Stay together as a couple and just get your intimacy outside, if inside is not possible for whatever reasons.
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