Welcome to enmlounge!
We (the administrators) are a fellow lifestyle couple who were fed up with the various issues a couple or single person may encounter trying to find other like-minded people to connect with.
Rather than try to build yet-another swinger website that would end up being mostly a ghost town and likely regional we thought it best to try to build something that leveraged the already thriving communities at reddit but added some lifestyle-specific tooling and features on top that reddit is unlikely to implement or address.
Please take a look around and feel free to submit your feedback.