Breaking a dry spell

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Partner (37M) and I (36F) haven’t had sex for about 8 months. We’ve been together 20 years, found out partner planned to get a happy ending massage earlier this year and since then I’ve not been able to sleep with him. He has a history of lying and breaching trust etc which I won’t go into.

I’m starting to feel as though we need to break the dry spell but feel weird about it. Any tips?

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Shortandthicck2

This isn't about sex....the lack of sex is a symptom to a much larger problem. I encourage you both to get into a good couples therapy and start over. Simply having sex will not change a thing.

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