In a dead bedroom for over 12 years. The screen time in the bed at night has finally gotten to the point to where we don’t even talk anymore or reflect on our days. If she’s not watching reels on socials, then she’s already asleep. It’s I’m tired and I’m ready to go to bed but 30-45 min later you’re still scrolling. I was curious as to if any other people like me have considered getting caught taking care of themselves to get a reaction from their spouse? If you have, what was it? How did they react? I’m a 46 with a very HL. I workout and stay active outdoors. I am always the one to initiate and have been for the last 12 years. Before we talk about hormones, she is on HRT pellets and according to her charts, her hormones are perfect. (45f)