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Since around August when I (HL41M) got an anniversary blowjob (two weeks after our last sex) in her (LL39F) own words, I just got disconnected emotionally from her.
I'm resentful for along time (few years or so), but I think that was the thing that literally "put me away" from her.
I'm not initiating anything anymore, I don't want to. Dont touch her, hold her hand, kiss her, even avoiding any chance of seeing her naked.
I don't mad anymore. I'm just focusing on my life without any need of sex from her. Tbh I feel much better now.
I'm not sure she'll initiate or try something, and I'm not sure how I'll react.
I doubt you're happier, you're just [currently] content with your decision. But it'll fade, because humans need connection and you'll circle back to that deep need for it. And cycle will start again...frustration, resentment, anger....and then another "crash" (like this one) will happen again.
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