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In 23 years of marriage, we've had some amazing nights. Like 4 times in one night at a hotel. Or the kids are downstairs, so take her from behind in the shower while we have a few minutes. Or she got a different sexy outfit for every night of our 20th anniversary vacation trip and I lost my mind. When we click, we CLICK.
But it is basically only when we're on vacation or we have a night away to ourselves. Even if the kids are at school or somewhere else and we have the house to ourselves, we're more vanilla. Is being home, where it's comfortable and the bed has the good mattress you picked together, just really THAT bland?
I just wish I knew HOW to capture vacation sex in a bottle and recreate that passion at home. It's been five weeks and I just wish I knew how to stoke the fires.
Ugh...
Well maybe that's just it. At home your partner might see constant reminders of what has to be done, tasks, lists in their mind, worries and so forth. That's why you both click better at vacation. What could help you here? Maybe transform one part of the basement/attic that nobody else has access to into a "playroom" just for you two. No laundry in there, no storage, no cellphones, no clutter, no nonsense. Best be soundproof so no neighbours or anyone being able to hear you two. Or find a cheaper getaway option outside your home you could escape to regularly.
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