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So my (28HLM) and my wife’s (32LLF) relationship has been having the mismatched libido issue for years.
She has told me today that she associates sex with being harassed and shamed. This is because of me bringing up my hurt at not feeling desired.
There seems to be no way for us higher libidos to communicate what we need without the lower libidos feeling coerced.
Anyway my wife says she needs to feel close to me and connected to feel attraction.
So my question is, if I can get my wife to trust me again, if she ever does want sex one day is there a way I can trust that she does actually want it?
I feel like all the damage is done
You guys need a GREAT couples counselor. The marriage will always struggle if you're not sexually compatible.
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