So I'm fairly new to this sub..But as all others in this sub, I am suffering from an almost nonexistent sex life. I am a 35 year old female and my husband is 37. We have been together 10 years ,married 3. We barely have sex. I think maybe once a month. I can't say that he changed because he never had a high sex drive but over the last year or so. It has gotten worse. He does suffer from depression and anxiety but I think honestly, he just isn't interested in sex. He spends most of his time after work, playing the game or watching sports. He is affectionate with hugs and kisses but sexually..nothing. I am at my wits end with this and I am really not sure what to do. We have had constant talks and he has promised to do better but nothing change. But what actually got me to write this post is the other night I wanted sex and he rolled over on his side to tell me that he was too tired and not in the mood.. but 5mins later..jumps up to turn on the TV to watch a game that he forgot came on. A part of me thinks he is not attracted to me..idk.. I really feel like the guy in this marriage..always wanting and asking for sex but getting turned down..oh yeah and when we do have sex it last no longer then 5 mins and always doggy style..thoughts and advice are welcome.