r/relationship_advice

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Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help!

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to r/relationship_advice by SilentBob78

7 hours ago

My girlfriend (22F) thinks watching porn is cheating, but I (28M) am struggling - how to handle it?

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View Post: I (25f) heard my girlfriend of 5 years (25f) talking on the phone about us when she thought i was asleep. Am i supposed to tell her I overheard her?

I (25f) heard my girlfriend of 5 years (25f) talking on the phone about us when she thought i was asleep. Am i supposed to tell her I overheard her?

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to r/relationship_advice by TallCommunication8

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(28M) trying to get with my co-worker (27F) what can I do to help my chances?

in Colorado

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27M 2 year relationship 24F.. being taken advantage of?

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to r/relationship_advice by Brookistine

7 hours ago

What else can I (31F) say to my partner (40M) besides “I’m sorry” for problems I can’t fix?

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to r/relationship_advice by Frosty-Phrase-1571

7 hours ago

F21 M22 am I the problem? If so how do I work in changing wanting second prospective please

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to r/relationship_advice by Baddest_bitch111

7 hours ago

20F and 21M, I found out my bf was sleeping with someone else a year ago. He's giving excuses due to the time factor, idk what to do. Help?

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to r/relationship_advice by Rich_Can_5091

7 hours ago

Boyfriend 23M I 21F think has a porn addiction or he just doesn’t love me. I need advice.

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View Post: I 25F dating a 27M for like two months now and his ex called him yesterday and I cant get this out of my head, and the situation is confusing me ?

I 25F dating a 27M for like two months now and his ex called him yesterday and I cant get this out of my head, and the situation is confusing me ?

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to r/relationship_advice by Material-Caramel7307

7 hours ago

I (M25) have been thinking of ending a 9 year relationship with my girlfriend (F27). What now?

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to r/relationship_advice by ThrowRA_AgonyAunt555

7 hours ago

I (28F) think my younger brother (25M) is turning into an incel. Our mum (55F) agrees. How do we help him?

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to r/relationship_advice by ryanbundy

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(21M) with my (21F) Gf said she doesn’t feel the same anymore?

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to r/relationship_advice by Ok_Sentence_7845

7 hours ago

Am I(M28) Just the ‘Safe Option’ for Marriage? 7 Years Together and Still No Real Effort From Her(F28)

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to r/relationship_advice by Blooberripie

7 hours ago

Has my (25f) boyfriend (26f) cheated on me?

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to r/relationship_advice by Ithorouglyenjoycats

7 hours ago

How do I (18F) strike up a conversation without seeming needy with a guy (18M) whom I've already conversed with, but it kinda went nowhere?

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to r/relationship_advice by throwaway1234880

7 hours ago

I ‘26FTM’ feel as though my friend ‘38F’ isn’t providing a balanced friendship. How do I go about this?

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to r/relationship_advice by ThrowRa19874

7 hours ago

27/f and 45/m is this the start of a controlling relationship?

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to r/relationship_advice by ITravelDaWorld

7 hours ago

View Post: I (32M) broke up with a girl (28F) over her lack of emotions when going out, in addition she did some things that I feel were shady but my question is - were they shady and was I the bad guy?

I (32M) broke up with a girl (28F) over her lack of emotions when going out, in addition she did some things that I feel were shady but my question is - were they shady and was I the bad guy?

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to r/relationship_advice by indokely

7 hours ago

How to balance shared hobbies and values in a relationship? [39M, 25F, 2 years together]

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to r/relationship_advice by anoneymousey

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View Post: I (18F) feel like i have a weird complex about masculinity and control/compatibility with the guy (20M) ive been exclusively talking to for 3 months. How can i fix this?

I (18F) feel like i have a weird complex about masculinity and control/compatibility with the guy (20M) ive been exclusively talking to for 3 months. How can i fix this?

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View Post: My ex M24 and I F21 broke up months ago, but we're still in contact and trying to maintain a friendship, but things are not as easy as I thought they would. Is it stupid of me to still want to help him figure things out?

My ex M24 and I F21 broke up months ago, but we're still in contact and trying to maintain a friendship, but things are not as easy as I thought they would. Is it stupid of me to still want to help him figure things out?

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to r/relationship_advice by SheepherderSmart8690

7 hours ago

How often is normal for sex? I (f19) and my bf (m19) have sex usually 2-3 times a month.

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to r/relationship_advice by drubi305

7 hours ago

I (36F) can’t handle my wife’s funks (36F) what is best way to support her?

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How important is the sex in relationship? I am 30F and my BF 36M.

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