r/relationship_advice

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Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help!

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5 months ago

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to r/relationship_advice by SpecialistSea5825

7 hours ago

View Post: I (23M) was committed to a (20F). I realised during our relationship that I was stuck in the circle of being hurt and doing right in the relationship. Do you feel the same and how do you get out of it?

I (23M) was committed to a (20F). I realised during our relationship that I was stuck in the circle of being hurt and doing right in the relationship. Do you feel the same and how do you get out of it?

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to r/relationship_advice by TheBoyIvan

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23 M and 21 F break up

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to r/relationship_advice by Im__Vanilla

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My (M27) bf (M27) is very hateful, controlling, insensitive, and has zero life goals. Any advice to get through this?

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to r/relationship_advice by TheManofAnotherWorld

7 hours ago

I (M24) am making a rare selfish decision- confessing to my friend / classmate (F23) and need insight

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to r/relationship_advice by lechlecha

7 hours ago

I 27F feel like my boyfriend 33M doesn’t really listen or care.

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to r/relationship_advice by Marschmelo3

7 hours ago

I F28 am afraid i am never going to be able to have a relationship again because of M35.

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to r/relationship_advice by Known-Row-7778

7 hours ago

I(F20) feel that dating my BF(M22) is like a 9-5 job

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to r/relationship_advice by sofiaanch

7 hours ago

Buying jewelry for men? 22 F and 22 M

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to r/relationship_advice by ILoveCoffeeAndMoney_

7 hours ago

I 32F love my boyfriend 38M dearly, but his lack of effort is driving me up a wall.

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to r/relationship_advice by PatecPhilippe

7 hours ago

Me (24M) having trouble with long distance relationship with my gf (19F). How can I save it and make it work?

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to r/relationship_advice by whosecookieisthis

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My (29M) girlfriend (28F) is constantly being taken for granted with people in her life

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to r/relationship_advice by Fine-Af6037

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View Post: My (30F) bf (26M) said he doesn’t feel like talking after a small disagreement, and has not gotten in touch with me for 2 days. What am I supposed to do?

My (30F) bf (26M) said he doesn’t feel like talking after a small disagreement, and has not gotten in touch with me for 2 days. What am I supposed to do?

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to r/relationship_advice by TempoBoss11

7 hours ago

My roommate (M20) hit up my sneaky link (F19) to fuck. Does he respect me? Or I’m I overthinking this?

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to r/relationship_advice by drdrhavemercyonme

7 hours ago

View Post: 22F 62M I have found myself into a dilemma where I feel uncomfortable and disgusted at his past behaviour and present, I know he is not cheating but why do I feel this way?

22F 62M I have found myself into a dilemma where I feel uncomfortable and disgusted at his past behaviour and present, I know he is not cheating but why do I feel this way?

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to r/relationship_advice by rebdom1ne

7 hours ago

my bf [21M] doesn’t get off on sex with me [23F]

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to r/relationship_advice by pralye

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View Post: I (22M) broke up with my GF (23F) when she was celebrating. I tried to fix our relationship and she agreed and we are on talking terms now. Is there anything I can do to fix us?

I (22M) broke up with my GF (23F) when she was celebrating. I tried to fix our relationship and she agreed and we are on talking terms now. Is there anything I can do to fix us?

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to r/relationship_advice by Illustrious_Chart144

7 hours ago

My girlfriend (35F) is saying tha I (37m) am acting jealous - am I?

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to r/relationship_advice by Glad-Emergency-7189

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My (40M) wife (39F) gave me an unlimited hall pass (but not for the reasons you think)

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to r/relationship_advice by nightmareb4xxxmas

7 hours ago

What are reasons my (25F) ex (25M) would continue looking at my LinkedIn after almost 3 years apart?

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to r/relationship_advice by Justhereforalitte

7 hours ago

When do relationships start to turn from “I” to “us” F/28, M/39, 1 year.

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to r/relationship_advice by Willing-Umpire9919

7 hours ago

My (20M) girl (22F) cheated on separate occasions in past relationships and I'm worried she might do the same to me. Is my worry for nothing?

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to r/relationship_advice by Apprehensive-You-929

7 hours ago

I (26/F) am seeking advice after difficult conversations with my roommate (24/M)

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to r/relationship_advice by ThRowRA1296457

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I feel like she’s been drifting away so I’m doing the same. Is this okay? M18 F18

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to r/relationship_advice by Husky_Plney_Laski

7 hours ago

19M anxious attachment style, my LDR 19F partner with BPD and avoidant attachment style broke up with me. How do i get over her?

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