r/relationship_advice

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Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help!

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I’m (28f) uncomfortable with my bf (29m) recent lesbian best friend. What can I do to not be so insecure or jealous?

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to r/relationship_advice by Big_Chris1999

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I (24M) like a girl (19F) who is I'm my classes and it's a little complex. Is there a way I can make this work?

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Not sure if I (20F) am in a situationship (w/ 20M) or not…??

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to r/relationship_advice by eschmigg

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31M and partner 30F. She lied. Am I being unreasonable with what I’m expecting as a solution or is there something else she should be doing?

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to r/relationship_advice by ventingshitter

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View Post: I(18M) has been in "friendship" with this Girl(18M) since 3 months and she has been lying to me about alot of things, also i dont know what to do about other things. Can yall help me conclude this? where did i mess up? also do i break them off my life?

I(18M) has been in "friendship" with this Girl(18M) since 3 months and she has been lying to me about alot of things, also i dont know what to do about other things. Can yall help me conclude this? where did i mess up? also do i break them off my life?

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to r/relationship_advice by evanhmn

5 hours ago

Two of My "Friends", Both 21M, are Making Me(21M) Question Our Friendship After Numerous Toxic/Drunken Incidents. Do I need to Defriend Them?

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to r/relationship_advice by ThrowRA106695

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I (29M) have fallen out of love with partner (27F) how do I let her know without destroying her?

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View Post: 24M been talking to a girl 22F who slept with someone else feeling upset but shouldn’t be and want to know how to stop feeling this way any ideas?

24M been talking to a girl 22F who slept with someone else feeling upset but shouldn’t be and want to know how to stop feeling this way any ideas?

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to r/relationship_advice by Sad-Bug-1913

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My (24M) GF (23F) is planning to go on a backpacking trip for months. What would you do?

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to r/relationship_advice by Top_Veterinarian_514

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I 22 F is in love with my mentor 24M, and i want to get rid of it. What do you advice?

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to r/relationship_advice by YoureCreepingOnMe

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My (30F) boyfriend (29M) brings up his ex every few weeks in conversation. Why is it necessary?

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to r/relationship_advice by Leading-Staff3586

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I 19F feel guilty for watching porn when my 19M bf doesn’t. How do I fix this?

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to r/relationship_advice by IndividualPair1504

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my partner ('24M') and I ('20F') have different plans for the future. What is your piece of advice?

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to r/relationship_advice by throwrahelpmeplease3

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Me (F/27), Bf (M/27) Times to cut my losses?

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to r/relationship_advice by anyDAYnow88

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My boyfriend (38M) & I (35F), have been together for about 3 years now. Why would he tell me this?

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to r/relationship_advice by Puzzled_Juice3215

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My (M19) girlfriend (F18) tells me she'll fix things, but doesn't until I lose patience?

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to r/relationship_advice by Puzzleheaded-Grape91

5 hours ago

Girlfriend (27F) and I (23M) got into a fight, Can someone give me some advice?

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to r/relationship_advice by Poppy_227

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Me(22F) needs advice with my (22M) boyfriend. Unsure what to do with my relationship?

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to r/relationship_advice by Alive_Middle_5490

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‘F39’ ‘M39’ let him go?

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to r/relationship_advice by Mechanic_Dude

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29/M and 25/F Telling me I need to work on communication and defending myself

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to r/relationship_advice by Flaky-Panic

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My bf 22M accused me 22F of cheating. How do you resolve this?

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to r/relationship_advice by Supbuttercupp

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View Post: 27M and 27F have been trying to go out for 4 years (covid hit us when we started talking), but he doesn’t really flirt… but makes it obvious he wants to go out with me?

27M and 27F have been trying to go out for 4 years (covid hit us when we started talking), but he doesn’t really flirt… but makes it obvious he wants to go out with me?

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Do you see this as consent? 27F 40M

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to r/relationship_advice by Thegreatpatatoe

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View Post: My friend [19M] is a little head over heels right now over a girl [19F] and is sure she likes him back but wanted some advice from me. What are some pieces of advice I should give him?

My friend [19M] is a little head over heels right now over a girl [19F] and is sure she likes him back but wanted some advice from me. What are some pieces of advice I should give him?

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