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Quick backstory.
So, me (M25) and my GF (F27) have been together since 2015, we met in 10th grade and have been dating since.
In the time since then, I have gotten professional training, started working with 19, and have been working ever since. I make good money (especially for our country).
In all of this time, what did she do? Nothing.
I'm serious, she's done basically nothing since then. She worked her first job for exactly one day, then she did nothing for 2 years, got another job and stayed there for a year, but got out of it and she's not even bothered to look for another one since (2 years have passed since then).
The only mention of a job I've heard her talk about is one of those jobs that you train AI, and it's task dependent on how much you make. Besides that she just sleeps until 11:00, clenas the house and then just sits watching TV / Youtube
In the beggining of me starting working, I've told her I don't mind paying for her stuff while she finds a job, but obviously 6 years have passed and nothing has changed and I feel that she is treating me for granted now.
But now things have intensified further, like, she's been pushing for us to get a house, and I've been letting it happen as I do have a house, it just might not be with her.
And now, I've been thinking of having a conversation with her along the lines of, I'm buying a house alone and the burden is all on me and this cannot be the case, so I won't be buying a house with her unless she finds a job, but I feel like this might fall unto deaf ears.
So, besides this rant that I've been needing to get out of my chest for a long time, has anyone been on this situation before? what did you do? what happened to you both? what advice could you give me?
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