We’ve been together for 2 years now and have lived together for almost all of it.

My bf for the past year has seemed not to want sex nearly as often. If I’m lucky, once a week. If not it can go to every 2 to almost 3 weeks.

We’ve talked about it in the past, but he continues to say it’s just stress. Were in a pretty good place financially and workplace. And otherwise his friends and family are also on good terms.

But he’s never the one to make the first move. It feels like more of a chore for him than anything else. And I’ve noticed recently it’s really taking a decline in my mental health.

Note the first year of us together was very healthy and no problems at all. But now, he doesn’t seem like he even wants to anymore.

Is there something i could do or any suggestions to help?

I’ve tried lingerie, fantasys, dressing up, doing what he likes, controlling, not being controlling, making the first move, and ect.