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(21M) with my (21F) Gf said she doesn’t feel the same anymore?
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We’ve been nearly perfect. I’m so in love with her I’m head over heels and would do absolutely anything for her. Around a week ago, things changed suddenly. Her roomate broke up with her bf of 5 years, she’s coming up on the end of nursing school for the semester, and things she’s family. I realized something was wrong and she told me that she’s still in love with me and does love me and at times she’s happy and head over heels and at other times she isn’t and he’s like the love train has slowed down tremendously. There has been a lot of arguing over small things that turn into big and bickering and I’m not sure if that’s the sole reason. She’s had a few boyfriends before me and the reason she broke up with them was for the same reason, she fell out of love. She has told me numerous times she does not want to break up and hopefully this is a little “bug” in our relationship and I told her I’m willing to do anything it takes to make us perfect and her happy again. I’m in a spot where idk what else I can do to make her happy or change. I’m always with her nearly 24/7 at her house or just together. We agreed that this week she should focus on school and don’t stress or worry about me. I’m gonna take a step back and we won’t argue and I’ll figure out my stuff. She’s told me numerous times it’s not my fault and she’s sorry but I tell her she doesn’t need to and it’s my fault. We’re going to talk about how she’s felt this week at the end of Thursday, just to check in how it’s going. We’re still going to talks and see eachother but not break up. I told her I’m willing to try anything before we should talk about that. She agreed and I told her I want to sleep at my place alone just to think and she needs some sleep and alone time as well. She agreed and we told eachother love you and goodnight. I don’t know what I can do differently or try or anything possible to change how she feels and make us perfect again. I can’t imagine my life without her in it. I’m not sure what I’ve done and how to fix it.

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