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r/SoloPoly

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A place to discuss issues specific to solo polyamory - a way of structuring polyam relationships that do not ascribe to the relationship escalator, eschew financial entanglements, and (often) do not aspire to cohabitate with partners.

Solo polyamorous individuals do not have a “primary partner” and often view themselves as their own primary; they value autonomy and agency over their lives and relationships.

Solo poly does NOT mean: “single while poly” or “married, but dating separately"

Moderators

Updated May 16, 2023
u/OpenOpportunity Active
Added 4 years ago
u/Platterpussy Active
Added 2 years ago
Also moderates: r/polyamory, r/POCpolyamory
u/Folk_Punk_Slut Active
Added 2 years ago
Also moderates: r/polyamory
u/DjGhettoSteve Active
Added 2 years ago
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Added 2 years ago

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/SoloPoly by MeganSappho
4 weeks ago
Raising solo poly within closed hierarchical poly
to r/SoloPoly by pulpcantoomove
2 months ago
Non-Monogamy 40+: A Discord Server
to r/SoloPoly by Gold-Tackle5796
3 months ago
Being SoloPoly seems incompatible with my disability and I'm struggling
to r/SoloPoly by NLTS2024
5 months ago
Seeking participants for an online survey on Coping Mechanisms, Personality Traits and Attachment Relationships
to r/SoloPoly by henri_luvs_brunch_2
5 months ago
Sex positive polyamory sub
to r/SoloPoly by TastefulSquirrel
5 months ago
How would you define « main relationship » as a Solo Poly partner?
to r/SoloPoly by vlctrees
6 months ago
My partner wants me to let him know every time I hang out with other partners
to r/SoloPoly by nottanaut
6 months ago
How important do you consider NRE?
to r/SoloPoly by comprehensive_ass
6 months ago
Solo poly vs. ENM
to r/SoloPoly by dschoby
7 months ago
Vetting potential partners and dates
to r/SoloPoly by HazeAI
1 month ago
Hot girl summer! Joy post!
to r/SoloPoly by Infinite_Procedure98
4 months ago
Am I am SoloPoly?
to r/SoloPoly by AquaTealGreen
6 months ago
Solo poly and having a hard time “levelling up” is it just me?
to r/SoloPoly by PolyChrissyInNYC
9 months ago
📌🖤April 2024 NYC Poly Cocktails Confirmed! 🖤📌
to r/SoloPoly by pulpcantoomove
9 months ago
Non-Monogamy 40+: A Discord Server
to r/SoloPoly by PolyChrissyInNYC
10 months ago
📌 🖤 March 2024 NYC Poly Cocktails is confirmed! 🖤 📌
to r/SoloPoly by EchoedWinds
10 months ago
Am I being unrealistic with what I have to offer potential partners?
to r/SoloPoly by think-twice-2
11 months ago
Hierarchy: any solo poly folks out there who *don't* get the ick?
to r/SoloPoly by LocalEnby20000
1 year ago
Moving from FWB to established relationships?
to r/SoloPoly by pulpcantoomove
9 months ago
Non-Monogamy 40+: A Discord Server
to r/SoloPoly by Positive_thoughts_12
1 year ago
Solo poly vs nested folks
to r/SoloPoly by skennyinsider
10 months ago
Journalist interview request
to r/SoloPoly by cantbeoriginalcani
1 week ago
Solo poly vs commitment issues - how do you know?
to r/SoloPoly by carbel-
1 year ago
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I feel so cared for.
to r/SoloPoly by Positive_thoughts_12
1 year ago
Expressing concerns to folks in hierarchy