Hi all, I would love some insight to see if I'm being the unreasonable one here. I've been solo poly for a year and a half now and still learning to navigate everything. I've been in a committed relationship with this partner for about a year have dated others intermittently. We have a general agreement to let the other know if we have new sexual or romantic partners for awareness.

I have been a little more active in dating recently, and my partner started asking to let him know every time I have a date or am hanging out with other partners. While I'm fine talking about my plans if it comes up in conversation, I'm feeling a bit uncomfortable with the seeming obligation to "report" to him every time I have a romantic or sexual interaction. He's not asking for details or anything. In my mind, I treat these dates/hangouts/booty calls as any other social situation where I don't necessarily feel like I need to disclose when they're happening every time.

Am I being the asshole by being hesitant to agree to letting him know all of my dates/hangouts?