r/polyamory

382,467 subscribers

Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person.

This subreddit discusses news, views, and issues around polyamory, polyfidelity, poly people, and related issues.

Moderators

Updated Jan 21, 2025

u/cos Active

Added 14 years ago

Also moderates: r/polyamoryR4R, r/species

u/overand Active

Added 12 years ago

Also moderates: r/polyamoryR4R, r/polyadvice

u/kxra Active

Added 12 years ago

Also moderates: r/polyamoryR4R, r/trisquel, r/PioneerValley, r/freeculture, r/FreeNetworkServices, and 3 more...

u/chelsey-dagger Active

Added 9 years ago

Also moderates: r/polyamoryR4R, r/polyadvice

u/kallisti_gold Active

Added 3 years ago

Also moderates: r/AskWomen

u/zorginbagel Active

Added 3 years ago

u/evinf Active

Added 3 years ago

u/Polyamamomma Active

Added 3 years ago

u/AutoModerator Active

Added 3 years ago

Also moderates: r/PiercedCock, r/FatHentai, r/NarcoFootage, r/BetweenThemTitties, r/steroidsxx, and 4065 more...

u/blooangl Active

Added 2 years ago

u/Platterpussy Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/SoloPoly, r/POCpolyamory

u/Folk_Punk_Slut Active

Added 1 year ago

Also moderates: r/SoloPoly

u/LiminalThinking Removed

Added 1 year ago • Removed 5 hours ago

u/NeoRyu777 Active

Added 1 year ago

u/SatinsLittlePrincess Active

Added 1 year ago

u/med_pancakes Active

Added 1 year ago

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/polyamory by blooangl

3 weeks ago

Brigading and trolls oh my! And how to report.

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Mod ✨ Sparkle Princess ✨

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3 weeks ago

to r/polyamory by fairycrack

5 hours ago

SLEEPOVERS

Curious/Learning

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5 hours ago

Polyamory-experienced professional resource?

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complex organic polycule

to r/polyamory

6 hours ago

to r/polyamory by ImpossibleRead4200

2 hours ago

How cringey is my love confession playlist and poem to the girl I’ve been seeing for 3 months?

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6 hours ago

to r/polyamory by Emotional_Ear_2298

5 hours ago

TW: Questionable Consent

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relationship anarchist

to r/polyamory

7 hours ago

to r/polyamory by PassiveAssassin90

5 hours ago

Feeling sorry for myself

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solo poly and touch starved

to r/polyamory

8 hours ago

to r/polyamory by d3dinsidekillmenow

5 hours ago

First time being jealous as a poly.

Curious/Learning

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8 hours ago

to r/polyamory by ThePapercutOwl

5 hours ago

My little bro adores my partners

Happy!

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to r/polyamory

8 hours ago

to r/polyamory by hellokitty7777hi

5 hours ago

I am seeking advice as a person newly exploring polyamory! (I have a few questions) I am 25, lesbian!

I am new

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to r/polyamory by strawberrypurple1234

5 hours ago

Throuple where 2 partners have outgrown each other?

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to r/polyamory by UnderConstructionEy

5 hours ago

Sticking to agreed times with changed plans - advice appreciated

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to r/polyamory by skrumthewizard

5 hours ago

I feel destroyed

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to r/polyamory by satellite-mind-

5 hours ago

How do you deal with heartbreak months and years on?

Curious/Learning

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to r/polyamory by oilshoes2234

5 hours ago

Ex meta setting boundaries

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11 hours ago

to r/polyamory by Acedia_spark

5 hours ago

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My partner has an inappropriate crush

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to r/polyamory

12 hours ago

to r/polyamory by Luhgeek24

5 hours ago

I’m dating someone who’s curious to trying poly(need advice)

Curious/Learning

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to r/polyamory by pamplemoussepink

5 hours ago

Struggling with my partner's NRE

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triad

to r/polyamory

13 hours ago

to r/polyamory by Large_Silver4004

5 hours ago

Friend I developed feelings for disrespected my wife.

I am new

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13 hours ago

to r/polyamory by purpleflyby

5 hours ago

Nesting partner doesnt have time for me anymore

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13 hours ago

to r/polyamory by SeriousInvite7235

5 hours ago

Advice please: Battling the want to feel "special" with your "main partner" when you are not their "main partner"

Curious/Learning

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18 hours ago

to r/polyamory by ChardQuiet8318

5 hours ago

Have you ever been asked to break up with a metamour for your partner?

I am new

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to r/polyamory by Ok_Flower3375

5 hours ago

A considered pause

Curious/Learning

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18 hours ago

to r/polyamory by Due-Ad2114

5 hours ago

The pain of deescalation & escalation

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19 hours ago

to r/polyamory by blissspiller

19 hours ago

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Poly and demi, sucks

musings

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22 hours ago

to r/polyamory by Suspicious_Trade_540

19 hours ago

What am I to make of this?

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