My summer is looking incredible! I’m a trans woman that separated from my wife a year ago. Since then I’ve been solo poly and been enjoying dating and I’ve settled into a regular thing with 3 lovely partners.

For my 40th bday I decided to go to a kinky lesbian weekend getaway at a lake with my girlfriend. I had so much anxiety going into it, worried about being too old, too fat, too trans etc… for the crowd.

But! I went and put myself out there and I had an incredible time and met so many new friends. I made out with 6 people on my way to the car when it was time to leave 😆 and then the anxiety kicked in again, about being a weekend novelty and not seeing these folks again etc…

Folks I have heard from so many people since getting back home! I’ve had multiple folks over, I heard from both of the people I really wanted to hear from and now I’m hosting a play party at the end of the month and it hit capacity 8 hours after announcement. I feel like the belle of the ball y’all, I found my people!

Being able to plan that party because I have my own space, and having the freedom to just go on dates and have people over. To get to know so many different folks. To have complete freedom to do what I want with my free time. To have so many first kisses!!! It’s been incredible, I love being solo poly it’s brought me a lot of joy in the last month in particular.