Hierarchy: any solo poly folks out there who *don't* get the ick?

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I know many solo poly folks also identify as relationship anarchists, which I think is super rad and wonderful. I have an anarchic approach to some of my relationships, and a hierarchical approach to others, specifically accomodating preexisting hierarchy between primary partners.

I know many people in my position will disqualify primary partners due to their hierarchy. But I like it so far. Any others?

I'm especially seeking to educate myself on natural hierarchy, the non-oppressive, consensual, mutually beneficial kind that I hear (?) exists. So if anyone has resources to recommend on this topic, I'd be ever so appreciative.

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