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r/IncelExit

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This sub is for people who got drawn into the Incel community but want support and help with a way out. We aren't a mocking community like r/IncelTear. This is a place to ask for advice, speak with others in a calm environment and talk about your experiences.

We're just here to help people find a way to get back on track. It can be easy to fall into these groups for comfort, but they ultimately lead nowhere.
It's time to put the copes down and get to work.

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/IncelExit by KaiLeyndell
1 month ago
Am I an Incel?
Asking for help/advice
to r/IncelExit by SamTheGill42
4 weeks ago
It's not really about sex (at least for me)
Discussion
to r/IncelExit by Numerous-Actuator95
10 months ago
How exactly do I “loosen up?”
Question
to r/IncelExit by SamTheGill42
4 weeks ago
How can I meet people in 1-on-1 context besides dating apps?
Asking for help/advice
to r/IncelExit by SamTheGill42
4 weeks ago
I don't really identify as incel, but I can't identify as nonincel either. I don't really know what to do.
Asking for help/advice
to r/IncelExit by ProfessionalOne1364
2 months ago
About confidence
Question
to r/IncelExit by No-Lab7758
4 months ago
I can’t escape
Looking for comfort
to r/IncelExit by alcoholichobbit
1 year ago
I don't understand how I'm supposed to improve
Asking for help/advice
to r/IncelExit by ProfessionalOne1364
2 months ago
How can I deal with my appearance?
Asking for help/advice
to r/IncelExit by ProfessionalOne1364
2 months ago
Not being able to behave normally in public
Asking for help/advice
to r/IncelExit by ProfessionalOne1364
2 months ago
Feeling trapped
Looking for comfort
to r/IncelExit by ZealousidealFig5
3 months ago
The stigma of being single for men
Question
to r/IncelExit by ZealousidealFig5
3 months ago
Is being single harder for men?
Question
to r/IncelExit by SamTheGill42
4 weeks ago
So a hooker came to my place..
Looking for comfort
to r/IncelExit by SamTheGill42
4 weeks ago
I don't know how true or incel this thought is
Discussion
to r/IncelExit by flyforasuburbanguy
1 month ago
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Did HITCH Give Good Dating Advice? Relationship Therapist vs. Hitch
Resource/Help
to r/IncelExit by ProfessionalOne1364
2 months ago
I just wish I didn't cry about it every single day
Looking for comfort
to r/IncelExit by Anglicised_Gerry
1 year ago
Is 24 too late to 1) have fun 2) become enough?
Asking for help/advice
to r/IncelExit by SporkydaDork
1 year ago
Long term sexual frustration, touch and intimacy deprivation contributes to my toxic aromatic dating practices.
Discussion
to r/IncelExit by flyforasuburbanguy
1 month ago
Height and race are two topics that (understandably) come up a lot in this sub so I appreciated the healthy dialogue in the comments from the original post
Discussion
to r/IncelExit by flyforasuburbanguy
1 month ago
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7 Things Men Mistakenly Believe Attracts Women
Discussion
to r/IncelExit by flyforasuburbanguy
1 month ago
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On Changing Into Someone Else
Resource/Help
to r/IncelExit by flyforasuburbanguy
1 month ago
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Scapegoating gets a bad rep, especially in incel communities, but I was fascinated by the idea of positive scapegoating discussed in this article
Discussion
to r/IncelExit by flyforasuburbanguy
1 month ago
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Video that tries to truly understand incels, made all the more interesting given the creator's experience as a trans person
Discussion
to r/IncelExit by flyforasuburbanguy
1 month ago
COVID: Or How I Learned to Care Less and Accept My Virginity
Discussion