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r/survivinginfidelity

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Welcome to Surviving Infidelity.

If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery.

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to r/survivinginfidelity by VenezuelaImperialist
1 week ago
(27M) My ex-girlfriend (25F) pushed for an open relationship, then left me for a woman. I feel like I was just a stepping stone in her journey, and I’m left broken.
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Explore1984
1 week ago
My wife 39F and I 40M going through a rough patch of married life
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by CustardChemical8436
4 weeks ago
Do cheaters live with the guilt?
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by maltiuma
1 month ago
Fixations on people you’d give zero fcks about otherwise
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by Spiritual_Citron8528
1 month ago
For those of you who stayed..how?
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Spiritual_Citron8528
1 month ago
I know I’m an idiot but will he ever change
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by jamiebabie8
2 weeks ago
When does the anger wear off?
Post-Separation
to r/survivinginfidelity by dhhansen
1 month ago
Seeking opinions on wife's behavior
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by runningupthathill78
2 weeks ago
Just need to vent; ws wont divulge what happened in affair
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by Affectionate_Ant7194
3 months ago
Feeling gaslit from my wayward / cheating partner
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by DavidHOviedo
3 months ago
Wife broke boundaries and I can't handle how angry I feel.
Rant
to r/survivinginfidelity by freckledpeach2
2 months ago
Welp. WH cheated and wants a divorce.
Rant
to r/survivinginfidelity by Special-Barracuda759
4 months ago
Ex cheated and now wants me back
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by IntroductionMuted495
3 months ago
Flushing 8 years down the drain
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by meticulousmoth
4 months ago
I miss cuddles. I miss feeling safe in his arms. I sit alone in my new place watching tv and see cute couples on tv. I miss feeling close to someone. I don't know how I'll ever get back to that place of even opening myself up for that kind of hurt again.
Rant
to r/survivinginfidelity by MKASSAULT2023
3 months ago
Telling signs of infidelity
Post-Separation
to r/survivinginfidelity by BigC_Gang
3 months ago
My situation is so bad but it’s still hard to leave
Rant
to r/survivinginfidelity by Monicaa1994
5 months ago
I (F30) divorced my husband(M34) after cheating on me even we are swinger?
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by ThrowRA_helpmep_lsss
5 months ago
Cheated on & discarded
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by sparks_92
4 weeks ago
Currently going through the hardest part of the breakup, need some support.
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by keno1988
4 months ago
How did you find out the affair? Or did they tell you? How did you gather proof? How did you confront them?
to r/survivinginfidelity by throwaway_galaxy_
4 months ago
Husband’s mistress sends me evidence of their affair
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by AdConscious3951
4 months ago
Please tell me this relationship will fail
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by Confident_Craft6265
4 months ago
Wife was raped for years by step grandfather as a teen, now on a business trip, she cheated on me with a 60 year old man (she is 26) their ‘friendship’ is clearly predatory but she’s totally fallen for it.. not sure how to proceed.
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by LoveMyWifeArizona
4 weeks ago
Update about wife and Doctor
Need Support