r/survivinginfidelity
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Welcome to Surviving Infidelity.

If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery.

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Fixations on people you’d give zero fcks about otherwise
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For those of you who stayed..how?
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I know I’m an idiot but will he ever change
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Feeling gaslit from my wayward / cheating partner
Advice
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Wife broke boundaries and I can't handle how angry I feel.
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Welp. WH cheated and wants a divorce.
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Ex cheated and now wants me back
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Flushing 8 years down the drain
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I miss cuddles. I miss feeling safe in his arms. I sit alone in my new place watching tv and see cute couples on tv. I miss feeling close to someone. I don't know how I'll ever get back to that place of even opening myself up for that kind of hurt again.
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Telling signs of infidelity
Post-Separation
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My situation is so bad but it’s still hard to leave
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I (F30) divorced my husband(M34) after cheating on me even we are swinger?
Advice
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Cheated on & discarded
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How did you find out the affair? Or did they tell you? How did you gather proof? How did you confront them?
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Husband’s mistress sends me evidence of their affair
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Please tell me this relationship will fail
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Wife was raped for years by step grandfather as a teen, now on a business trip, she cheated on me with a 60 year old man (she is 26) their ‘friendship’ is clearly predatory but she’s totally fallen for it.. not sure how to proceed.
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Hoped I wouldn’t end up here.
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Wife went crazy, cheated & attempts a self delete
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He reached out to me after ten months just to fight
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I wish everyone understood the pain.
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Should I message the wives?
Advice
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She cheated and I am still obsessed with her
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Has anyone held a great dislike for the AP and even wanted revenge?
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Did NOT “Survive Infidelity”. Is sex during separation ok?
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