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r/survivinginfidelity

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Welcome to Surviving Infidelity.

If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery.

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to r/survivinginfidelity by failing-backwards
3 weeks ago
Confirmed her affair 2 nights ago, not understanding any explanation
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by LEGION-AK
1 month ago
Is my wife cheating on me, or does she just not want me anymore?
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by anxietyanny
1 month ago
My fiancé was messaging other women
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by sugarplumfairys
1 month ago
boyfriend of 6 years drunkenly cheated on me
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by xoibsurferx
2 months ago
Wife had an affair partly because of me
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by Best-Ad-3965
1 month ago
Need help advice. Wife cheated
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by OrchidSubstantial481
2 months ago
Infidelity causing sexual trauma
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by Strict_Engine4039
2 months ago
Christmas gift for stbexw
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Resident-Switch-8062
2 months ago
My wife confessed to cheating but my therapist says she didn’t
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by euthanasia-of-me
2 months ago
Infidelity in an open relationship. I feel totally out of reality.
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by Fearless_City_7819
3 months ago
Your opinion on this
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Constant-Ride-6660
3 months ago
What if AP wins and marry him?
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by Routine-Passenger-20
3 months ago
Sexting- Show the texts!
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by dudewhy33
2 months ago
Is it normal to feel like the lying hurts more than the actual cheating does?
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Strict_Engine4039
2 months ago
Anyone still living with their ex wife?
Post-Separation
to r/survivinginfidelity by VenezuelaImperialist
3 months ago
(27M) My ex-girlfriend (25F) pushed for an open relationship, then left me for a woman. I feel like I was just a stepping stone in her journey, and I’m left broken.
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Explore1984
4 months ago
My wife 39F and I 40M going through a rough patch of married life
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Strict_Engine4039
2 months ago
Everything she accused me of..
Rant
to r/survivinginfidelity by MyNameisnotChuck509
1 month ago
Finally, my entire story.
Rant
to r/survivinginfidelity by Strict_Engine4039
2 months ago
How to Grey rock effectively.
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by CustardChemical8436
4 months ago
Do cheaters live with the guilt?
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Strict_Engine4039
2 months ago
If I leave I’m going to be homeless
Rant
to r/survivinginfidelity by maltiuma
5 months ago
Fixations on people you’d give zero fcks about otherwise
Need Support
to r/survivinginfidelity by Spiritual_Citron8528
5 months ago
For those of you who stayed..how?
Advice
to r/survivinginfidelity by Spiritual_Citron8528
5 months ago
I know I’m an idiot but will he ever change
Need Support