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r/CougarsAndCubs

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READ THE FAQ & RULES BEFORE POSTING OR COMMENTING! A safe space to trade experiences, frustrations, worries, analyze cultural reactions, or just chat with fellow cougars and cubs. Working definition: a cougar/cub relationship is one where the woman (cougar) is a woman of 40 who at least 10 years older than the man (cub) or woman (kitten). A woman under 40 is a Puma.

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to r/CougarsAndCubs by Able-Marsupial-3652
3 days ago
Is it OK to be attracted to women in their 50s and 60s even though I'm middle 20s?
to r/CougarsAndCubs by CauseCertain
4 days ago
25M do I have a chance?
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by No_Smile_4977
4 days ago
Real and Scams
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by princesszeldarnpl
1 week ago
How do you deal with the judgement?
to r/CougarsAndCubs by egloryboy
1 week ago
When an older woman mentions her children’s age & compares them to you
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by smurfette5569
3 weeks ago
I didn't expect this, but I'm loving it
Accomplishments
to r/CougarsAndCubs by TrueBeliever714
1 month ago
2nd dinner with girlfriend and my parents
to r/CougarsAndCubs by fearthemask
1 month ago
I [24M] am going out on a date with a [44F] next week... nervous!
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by Electrical-Salary232
1 month ago
25M / 57F and Overthinking: Should I? Appropriate? Waste of Time? Delulu?
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by PineapplePair757VB
1 month ago
Stacy's Mom t-shirt
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to r/CougarsAndCubs by Zealousideal-Ask5663
2 months ago
Cub Reached Out Again
to r/CougarsAndCubs by massiecure
2 months ago
favorite older woman/younger man romance in movies or tv shows? any language is fine 😊
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to r/CougarsAndCubs by Diligent_Force_8215
2 months ago
I wish I had taken the chance.
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by Organic-Professor967
3 months ago
I feel conflicted about my attraction to older women
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by RainbowCake13
3 months ago
Online relationships?
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to r/CougarsAndCubs by Thechuckles79
3 months ago
Mature ladies, how do friends react?
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to r/CougarsAndCubs by Alternative_Dish_950
3 months ago
It seems to me like some people see an older woman this way
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to r/CougarsAndCubs by Diligent_Force_8215
2 months ago
I feel like a toy sometimes
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by GeologistGreat5491
2 months ago
I don’t know what more to do
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by Thestruggling20s
2 months ago
Was she flirting or just complimenting?
🐻 Cub Crisis
to r/CougarsAndCubs by Sobekrises
2 months ago
No one is gonna judge you for it. (Sorta)
to r/CougarsAndCubs by Professional_Cat_437
4 months ago
Cougars, do you have a thing for twinks and femboys?
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to r/CougarsAndCubs by LastBrick1981
4 months ago
Older women “know what they want”
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to r/CougarsAndCubs by sigillum_diaboli666
4 months ago
Just a foolish cougar who let a cub play with her until he found someone else.
Disappointments
to r/CougarsAndCubs by Thechuckles79
4 months ago
Feeling attacked
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