They can't get a date of their own age bc of their circumstances. Usually it's their finances and their living situation.

Yet they think the older woman will be interested regardless of that due to their AGE. the age by itself isn't the reason!

So I feel like they're lowering their standards by going "the older woman route". I find it disrespectful and unattractive.

So that's an instant No from me.

It's just something I've encountered.

Besides the "older woman experience" which is even worse.

Edit. I have standards of my own and I won't accept anyone just because they are young and want an older woman,or rather think that they want it.