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r/dismissiveavoidants

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**This is a support sub for those who have a dismissive avoidant (DA) attachment style.**

Redditors who are not DA can post in the All AT Styles thread. Please READ THE RULES before participating to understand what is and is not allowed. Avoidant bashing is not acceptable here.

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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Discussion Dismissive Avoidant Seeking support Seeking input from DA's only Secure [FA Leaning] Anxious Preoccupied
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to r/dismissiveavoidants by cf4cf_throwaway
1 month ago
Thoughts on deciphering the difference between secure behavior and disinterest?
to r/dismissiveavoidants by cf4cf_throwaway
1 month ago
Damn is it hard to tell the difference between apologizing/negotiating relationship terms vs. begging.
to r/dismissiveavoidants by marskc24
7 months ago
DA Transition Question
to r/dismissiveavoidants by Fiddlehead26
1 year ago
Hit the point of disgust right before our first trip together
to r/dismissiveavoidants by Fiddlehead26
1 year ago
Want to break pattern, but not sure what my pattern is
to r/dismissiveavoidants by Fiddlehead26
1 year ago
Unable to feel love or attraction
to r/dismissiveavoidants by cf4cf_throwaway
1 month ago
Leaving my Avoidant attachment style behind: The loneliness in becoming "Secure"
to r/dismissiveavoidants by throwaway56567554
1 year ago
Do you think I should cut this guy off? or just set a new boundary?
to r/dismissiveavoidants by throwaway56567554
1 year ago
recently discovered my attachment style may be dismissive avoidant