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r/BDSMnot4newbies

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This diverse subreddit is especially for kinksters who are not BRAND NEW to the lifestyle. Active beginners absolutely welcome! We share ideas, stories, questions, advice, support, humor and friendship among good people who know some twisted stuff and want to explore more. We <3 newbies; everyone was a newbie once. We just want them to ask their "how do I start" questions elsewhere.

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Updated May 13, 2024
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to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Remarkable_Band5207
2 days ago
32F/ 2025 Rules Idea
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by BoredTTT
1 week ago
Second Saturday Sext-Stravaganza is now OPEN for the next 24 hours!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by spicygingermilf_09
1 month ago
Help! How to find kinky play partners in our area??
FIRST POST! Please be nice!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by welshbondagefan
2 months ago
Wife's revenge
Second Saturday Creative Writing
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Master_blue_sadic
3 months ago
Self considerations
Kinky Me! -- AMA, Autobiographical Post or 7 in 7 Audio
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Remarkable_Band5207
3 months ago
[31F] Open Communication with the Owners
FIRST POST! Please be nice!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by anothersadist
3 months ago
Structural Fittings AKA metal bondage.
BDSM and Science
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by anothersadist
3 months ago
Sensitive communities
Ready, set, DISCUSS!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by SadisticAbusiveLover
6 months ago
I can't enjoy sex, romance or love unless the sex is extremely rough, vanilla sex is USELESS.
FIRST POST! Please be nice!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by CPaxxxx
9 months ago
A non-exhaustive list of unique scenes proposed or planned that I regret not doing
Ready, set, DISCUSS!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by TheCalmHands
9 months ago
Clinical Vs BDSM terminology
Ready, set, DISCUSS!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Sir6969
3 months ago
Bdsm negotiation sheet I can use
Ready, set, DISCUSS!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by TheCalmHands
9 months ago
No limits!!
Ready, set, DISCUSS!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by carencro
1 year ago
Brag on yourself!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Mira_Maven
1 year ago
The Cost of BDSM Content
** N4N Column **
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by BDSMandDragons
1 year ago
FriYay Q+A Halloweekend edition
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by yours_lewdly
1 year ago
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Blue leather
KITTEN KAKE DAY!!!!!!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by TheRavenousPup
11 months ago
Sacrilegious Scene Ideas?
FIRST POST! Please be nice!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by tesstorch
1 year ago
For My Own Good
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Mira_Maven
1 year ago
Pain Processing
** N4N Column **
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Mira_Maven
1 year ago
Risk in Kink, BDSM, & Adult Play Part 2
** N4N Column **
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by once_owned
1 year ago
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My partner asked to photograph me during a self-suspension - I love how the photos came out...
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Mira_Maven
1 year ago
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Modeling a whip prototype I made
KITTEN KAKE DAY!!!!!!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Mira_Maven
1 year ago
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Capsaicin Needles 🥵😰
KITTEN KAKE DAY!!!!!!
to r/BDSMnot4newbies by Mira_Maven
1 year ago
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Captured!
KITTEN KAKE DAY!!!!!!