r/BDSMcommunity

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Updated May 23, 2025

u/AutoModerator Active

Added 6 years ago

Also moderates: r/PiercedCock, r/FatHentai, r/NarcoFootage, r/BetweenThemTitties, r/steroidsxx, and 4091 more...

u/subwoofer82 Active

Added 6 years ago

Also moderates: r/BDSMpersonals, r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/BDSMerotica, r/BDSMnot4newbies, and 2 more...

u/South_in_AZ Active

Added 6 years ago

Also moderates: r/bdsm

u/fading_reality Removed

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u/Theegravedigger Active

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u/Bluebeards_Kitten Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/BDSMerotica, r/Spanking

u/ThatKaylesGuy Active

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u/Multi_Orgasmic_Man Removed

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u/JustOneAgain Active

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Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/Roughanal, r/Roughsex, r/Dominated, r/AssFucking, and 12 more...

u/Fluffychipmonk1 Active

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Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/OrgasmTorture, r/BDSMpersonals, r/bdsm, r/Spanking, and 3 more...

u/Spongey_ankles Removed

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Also moderates: r/BDSMpersonals, r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/HumiliationBDSM, r/Femdom

u/Early-Apartment-9250 Active

Added 1 year ago

Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/BDSMpersonals, r/Spanking, r/BDSMerotica

u/Blackdeathspeedmetal Active

Added 1 year ago

Also moderates: r/BDSMpersonals, r/bdsm, r/Spanking

u/CynicalPlatapus Active

Added 1 year ago

Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/bdsm, r/BDSMpersonals, r/ghostnipples, r/Roughsex, and 1 more...

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to r/BDSMcommunity by LiopleurodonCharliee

15 minutes ago

I think my partner is trying to isolate me from the kink community and control me in a way that I find very concerning

Seeking advice

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to r/BDSMcommunity by SnooBananas9681

33 minutes ago

Ice dildo - cautions and fun lvl

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to r/BDSMcommunity by AwkwardBet69

50 minutes ago

What is the best task you’ve been given?

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to r/BDSMcommunity by theZemnian

1 hour ago

Chest harnesses for trans guys

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to r/BDSMcommunity by Visual_Thought4714

1 hour ago

Needing insight about submission - am I alright?

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Owned sub

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1 hour ago

to r/BDSMcommunity by InappropriateStand

1 hour ago

Other Submissives

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to r/BDSMcommunity by Mean-Vast-4691

1 hour ago

Couples Naked, Bound and Gagged Together.

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to r/BDSMcommunity by Arght4

2 hours ago

Can you incorporate bdsm elements in casual sex?

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to r/BDSMcommunity by Educational_Fruit401

3 hours ago

Positions that make you feel the most subby?

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to r/BDSMcommunity by 46692

3 hours ago

Chastity belt for petite women

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to r/BDSMcommunity

3 hours ago

to r/BDSMcommunity by ChiOralGuy

3 hours ago

How do we incorporate piss play into our sex?

TW: extreme, advanced play

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to r/BDSMcommunity

3 hours ago

to r/BDSMcommunity by miley_sunshine

4 hours ago

Subreddit for new-subs, subreddit for subs only.

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to r/BDSMcommunity by BalaBustaRhymes

5 hours ago

I’d (30f) like to be a little freakier with my wife (29f). We thought about having sex in public. Where’s a subtle place we could do it?

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to r/BDSMcommunity by DommeClaireOfficial

6 hours ago

May I Ask? Starting Conversations About Boundaries

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to r/BDSMcommunity

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to r/BDSMcommunity by ScarcityBitter1387

6 hours ago

why can't I find my IDOl mistress?

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to r/BDSMcommunity by RareLie5500

9 hours ago

Why is there such a huge gap between the sexes when it relates to oral?

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9 hours ago

to r/BDSMcommunity by Madame_Steph

9 hours ago

Kink On Spotlight: Cuckoldry

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to r/BDSMcommunity by LittleBratAlice

10 hours ago

I got Mummified for my 18th Birthday!

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to r/BDSMcommunity by Zealousideal-Star518

11 hours ago

21 F for M

TW: CNC r*pe play

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to r/BDSMcommunity by Winter_Translator104

12 hours ago

پارتنر میخوام

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12 hours ago

to r/BDSMcommunity by Agreeable-Thought305

15 hours ago

What's the most comfortable cage for long term chastity?

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to r/BDSMcommunity by Infamous-Round-1898

15 hours ago

Searching for a piece of fiction

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16 hours ago

to r/BDSMcommunity by Lola_Loose

16 hours ago

View Post: Is this a weird kink? My dream is for a couple to impregnate me and make me have their baby, so I get all stretched out and the wife can stay perfect.

Is this a weird kink? My dream is for a couple to impregnate me and make me have their baby, so I get all stretched out and the wife can stay perfect.

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16 hours ago

to r/BDSMcommunity by dumb_ftm_slut

17 hours ago

I don’t know how bad this actually was or if I’m just overreacting

TW: consent violations

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17 hours ago

to r/BDSMcommunity by Realistic-Sir3515

17 hours ago

Ropes

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