What's up with every other BDSM community on Reddit being so sensitive?

You think a group of people who enjoyed beating each other and degregating each other would be the opposite of sensitive.🤣 But no. (That statement was just a joke)

Of course we're all for SSC.

But when discussing things people feel the need to bring up points that are just not relative and argue stupid things. I've been banned so many times from so many BDSM subreddits over dumb shit.

Has anybody here noticed how sensitive these communities are as well?

EDIT: Curious if anybody else has been unjustly banned in the various BDSM sub reddits? What I'm referring to is stuff that does not violate the subreddit rule or Reddit TOS.