1. Shaving in the bathtub. This was the next scene I was going to do in a dynamic that ended last year. He had a nice tub and the habit of wrapping me in a towel warm from the dryer after a shower; I was going to bring my double edged safety razor and bubble bath. The thought of someone else shaving my legs oozed with symbolism in my mind - power exchange, yes, but wrapped up in gender roles and expectations.
2. Freeuse cookie baking. I met someone online who was traveling to my area soon. Upon learning that I bake as a hobby, he had a specific chocolate chip cookie recipe that he asked me to make, with the condition that he be present and I be open to freeuse while he prepared it. Initially, I protested because chopping chocolate and opening and closing an oven door aren’t activities you can do safely while being railed, not to mention the food safety issues posed by nudity and body fluids. In the end, we never met, but I still think about that scene when I bake in only an apron.
3. Peppermints… all over. I had a wonderful first date with a submissive man who blushed when I kissed him goodbye. He was so cute that I wanted to dream up a very degrading, gross scene for us. What I proposed to him was this: I’d buy a bag of peppermints (the circular white and red swirled candy), he would strip, I could unwrap, lick, and stick the candies onto his body. Honestly, just writing it makes my skin crawl. I was open to how long he’d have to keep them on or what I’d make him do while all… bedazzled, but I’m sure the sickly sweet, minty smell paired with the pulling sensation on his skin as he moved would prove to be one he’d never forgot. Alas, he left for a months-long emergency work trip soon after we connected, and although we kept in touch, this scene was never brought to light.

What scenes have you planned that got shelved? Have you been able to find a new time and place to do them, or do they simply live on in your mind?