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r/nonmonogamy

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Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This community is for ethical non-monogamy, not adultery or cheating.

Moderators

Updated Dec 11, 2024
u/TheYellowRose Removed
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Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

Remain on-topic

This is a space dedicated to ethical nonmonogamy. Posts about cheating or other unethical relationships are not allowed.

2

Be civil

Be nice. Do not engage in slapfights or trolling with other users

3

Give good, ethical advice

We do not tolerate bad or unethical advice.

4

No hateful content

We will not tolerate any misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, racism, ableism, etc.

5

No research, surveys or interviews without permission

All people or organizations wishing to conduct research or interview members of the subreddit must contact the mod team for approval.

6

No spam of self-promotion

We do not allow any spam or self-promotion

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No spam or self-promotion

We do not allow any spam or self-promotion

8

No hookup posts

Please direct all r4r posts to /r/nonmonor4r

9

Follow Reddit Rules

Please report any violations of the content policy to us AND the admins

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/nonmonogamy by Sensitive-Reveal6581
1 week ago
Couple struggling with my now preferences 40M41F
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to r/nonmonogamy by ShadowGhost2100
3 weeks ago
18 [M4F] #SanDiego 6'5 Middle-Eastern Bull Down to Fuck NSA
M4F
in San Diego, CA
to r/nonmonogamy by opazzzopreme
2 months ago
M26 & F25 looking for girl in Stockholm sweden
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in Stockholm, Sweden
to r/nonmonogamy by Impressive-Alarm8750
2 months ago
M4F sexting?
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by kinkyykinkyy
3 months ago
M27 new to this
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to r/nonmonogamy by SillySplit2213
3 months ago
M4F Searching for a partner who's interested in open relationship. Suggest me a platform to find such like-minded women (No Tinder or bumble)
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by Embarrassed-Desk7209
4 months ago
M25 F23 where should we start?
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to r/nonmonogamy by Afraid-Statement-693
4 months ago
M20, Question for the older guys/females who have lived this lifestyle (Cuckold)
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to r/nonmonogamy by Shadow_Play_
4 months ago
Entering my slut phase. Just opened my LDR and just got my first FWB. (M40s)
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to r/nonmonogamy by aksomething907
4 months ago
32 [M4F] online/anywhere seeking a girlfriend
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by Shadow_Play_
4 months ago
(M40s) Having a FWB means I’m no longer suppressing my desires… which brings things up.
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to r/nonmonogamy by couplecuk1985
4 months ago
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F32 M40 looking for meet new couples or people :)?
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to r/nonmonogamy by Chance-Crow-6942
4 months ago
33 [M4F] grand rapids Michigan
M4F
in Grand Rapids, MI
to r/nonmonogamy by Best_Mixture_9761
5 months ago
32[M4F] - Looking for a wife...
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by Motorcycle_Mayhem13
5 months ago
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M49 in 845 area code looking for a female for ongoing fun ….
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to r/nonmonogamy by nly2017
6 months ago
Pregnant with my (F30) boyfriend (M46) child after husband (M29) encouraged it. Now he’s changed his mind.
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to r/nonmonogamy by Puzzleheaded-Owl7599
7 months ago
43 [m4a] married to 40f, I’m dying to watch her with another man
M4A
to r/nonmonogamy by TearCritical
7 months ago
M30 Confused about monogamy & non-monogamy. Need outside view
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to r/nonmonogamy by Full_Importance3302
7 months ago
M26 Exploring Conditional Non-monogamy in My Relationship
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to r/nonmonogamy by Full_Importance3302
7 months ago
M26 Exploring Conditional Non-monogamy in My Relationship
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to r/nonmonogamy by ConsciousTarget9362
7 months ago
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Session last night. I'm gonna lonely tonight. let's plan then. D[m] me.
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to r/nonmonogamy by xj12345
8 months ago
34 [m4f] near Fort Worth Texas
M4F
in Fort Worth, TX
to r/nonmonogamy by passion-to-live
9 months ago
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50M [M4F/MF] #Las_Vegas - A Quest For Asian Lifestyle Folks - 3/25 - 28 at Aria Hotel
M4F M4MF
in Las Vegas, NV
to r/nonmonogamy by Paranoid2022
9 months ago
40 [M4F] Still looking for the elusive one!!
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by No-can-do-can-u
10 months ago
M4F in East Coast #CT
M4F
in Connecticut