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r/nonmonogamy

161,349 subscribers
Non-Monogamy is a blanket term covering several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, and/or romantic partners. This community is for ethical non-monogamy, not adultery or cheating.

Moderators

Updated Nov 5, 2024
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Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Remain on-topic

This is a space dedicated to ethical nonmonogamy. Posts about cheating or other unethical relationships are not allowed.

2

Be civil

Be nice. Do not engage in slapfights or trolling with other users

3

Give good, ethical advice

We do not tolerate bad or unethical advice.

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No hateful content

We will not tolerate any misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, racism, ableism, etc.

5

No research, surveys or interviews without permission

All people or organizations wishing to conduct research or interview members of the subreddit must contact the mod team for approval.

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No spam of self-promotion

We do not allow any spam or self-promotion

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No spam or self-promotion

We do not allow any spam or self-promotion

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No hookup posts

Please direct all r4r posts to /r/nonmonor4r

9

Follow Reddit Rules

Please report any violations of the content policy to us AND the admins

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to r/nonmonogamy by opazzzopreme
1 month ago
M26 & F25 looking for girl in Stockholm sweden
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in Stockholm, Sweden
to r/nonmonogamy by Embarrassed-Desk7209
2 months ago
M25 F23 where should we start?
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to r/nonmonogamy by Shadow_Play_
3 months ago
Entering my slut phase. Just opened my LDR and just got my first FWB. (M40s)
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to r/nonmonogamy by aksomething907
3 months ago
32 [M4F] online/anywhere seeking a girlfriend
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by Shadow_Play_
3 months ago
(M40s) Having a FWB means I’m no longer suppressing my desires… which brings things up.
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to r/nonmonogamy by nly2017
5 months ago
Pregnant with my (F30) boyfriend (M46) child after husband (M29) encouraged it. Now he’s changed his mind.
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to r/nonmonogamy by TearCritical
6 months ago
M30 Confused about monogamy & non-monogamy. Need outside view
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to r/nonmonogamy by Full_Importance3302
6 months ago
M26 Exploring Conditional Non-monogamy in My Relationship
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to r/nonmonogamy by Full_Importance3302
6 months ago
M26 Exploring Conditional Non-monogamy in My Relationship
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to r/nonmonogamy by xj12345
6 months ago
34 [m4f] near Fort Worth Texas
M4F
in Fort Worth, TX
to r/nonmonogamy by passion-to-live
8 months ago
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50M [M4F/MF] #Las_Vegas - A Quest For Asian Lifestyle Folks - 3/25 - 28 at Aria Hotel
M4F M4MF
in Las Vegas, NV
to r/nonmonogamy by No-can-do-can-u
9 months ago
M4F in East Coast #CT
M4F
in Connecticut
to r/nonmonogamy by EngineeringSimple317
11 months ago
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37m4ff wla
M4FF
to r/nonmonogamy by Affectionate-Buddy57
11 months ago
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M4F Tampa casual connection
M4F
in Tampa, FL
to r/nonmonogamy by BabyDave2001
11 months ago
Had a 3sum and it’s all gone wrong (m42)(f32) (f52)
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to r/nonmonogamy by hoppity99
1 year ago
[M4f] needs help
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by BestMaize5142
1 year ago
M22 M26 mono-poly relationship
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to r/nonmonogamy by Exotic_Sandwich6146
1 year ago
M27 trying to understand my girlfriend F25 who was in an open relationship
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to r/nonmonogamy by Familiar-Clerk-77
1 year ago
31 [M4F] India/Anywhere - Childfree companion to share life's experiences and escapades for the long haul
M4F
in Haul, India
to r/nonmonogamy by Kooky_Mission2622
1 year ago
M4f schdy
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by TA_RA_Seaescape
1 year ago
How do I (f28) better deal with being envious of my partner (m40) having been the only one to have any pursuits or encounters in our two (nearly three) years of being open? Any suggestions on how to better find people, be it apps or in person? And any advice on finding a threesome in person?
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to r/nonmonogamy by Oh-Hel-No
1 year ago
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[M46/F28][DFW] Looking for female friend
M4F
in Dallas, TX
to r/nonmonogamy by 1247283215
1 year ago
(m47) Married man called me (f38) a toy during flirtation after 6th date and I'm concerned about his views on me and my role in his life
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to r/nonmonogamy by TheRealFallenHero
3 months ago
M4F - is it as sleazy as it sounds?
M4F
to r/nonmonogamy by Certain_Passenger_94
1 year ago
I (m/49) can only assume that my gfs (f/46) intentions were meant to be hurtful.
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