My story starts with my office colleagues and Filipinas who I happened to bump into in the elevator. I don't know what it is but the fresh scent that lingers on had me hooked and I knew I had to have a Filipina gf someday.

Then fortunately I matched an OFW Filipina on a dating app who was a single mother of two and was a few years older than me. Age didn't matter to me as she was gorgeous (aging like fine wine) and was an amazing lover. We were in a relationship for a year, before she decided to dump me for another guy who promised her the sun and moon and dumped her after a year. She then dated another guy, who did the same. So two years later after two failed relationships, she and I were back together which lasted for another year. I provided for her unconditionally and loved her dearly but she was financially a mess and would argue, demand money and treat me like dirt when at times I couldn't support her. So, eventually our relationship ended for the final time and I swore never to go back to her.

However, to this day, I don't know what I did wrong to deserve such treatment from her despite being the honest, caring and loving bf she ever had (which she admitted to time and again).

Anyway moving on in between this break up/patchup/breakup... I had two short relationships with Filipina OFWs who were single mothers as well. Whilst they weren't materialistic or abusive like my former gf, they didn't last as the spark was missing.

So, here I am. I know I have most of the attributes a woman would want, (tall, good looking, well to do, caring and loving)...I could never find someone who isn't judgemental and materialistic.

Don't know if I'm looking for the wrong person, whether such a person exists or not, or should I stop my quest altogether?

What do fellow redditors think?