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r/ENM

13,440 subscribers
a safe discussion sphere for ethical non monogamy. nudes and erotica not permitted.

Moderators

Updated Nov 8, 2024
u/mxmnull Active
Added 4 years ago
u/mstarrbrannigan Active
Added 4 years ago
Also moderates: r/TalesFromAdultStores, r/notlikeotherguys, r/coolpeoplepod, r/shitfromabutt

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No lewds or nudes

There's plenty of places to go if you want to show off. This is a place for discussion.

2

"Thirst" ain't cool.

Seriously. This is a place of discussion, learning, and growth. Keep it in your pants.

3

No policing others' poly

If their version of ENM does not match your version of ENM, it's not your place to shout them down. Discussions will be civil, damn it.

4

No erotica

If a story gets a little steamy in the course of a discussion, that's fine, but we're not an erotica forum. Excessively sexual writing will be removed.

5

Doxxers get booted.

If you share someone's real world information, you're out and you don't get back in.

6

sexism ain't cool either

I don't care who hurt you. Sexism won't be tolerated. And if you're one of those people who are adamant there's only two genders, you should go ahead and leave now...

7

Don't be a troll

Don't come in here just to cause others grief. ENM can be an extremely sensitive topic for a lot of people, and being a hostile fuck is not going to be tolerated.

8

No posts looking for hook ups

This is a place for discussion. No posts about looking for hookups allowed. If a user messages you unsolicited because of a post you made, please notify mods and they will be banned.

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to r/ENM by mxmnull
3 months ago
Warning for those in the Cincinnati area
to r/ENM by DingoAdmirable9164
1 hour ago
Help me understand Cucking..
Question
to r/ENM by Confident_Chef_6381
15 hours ago
My partner wants his best friend to join us
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by Vivid-Performance-47
16 hours ago
New to the Idea
to r/ENM by portaperro
1 day ago
40M/40F New to Opening Relationship -- first experience advice?
M
to r/ENM by MySexyNipples
22 hours ago
Early days - managing the feels
to r/ENM by breeemix
1 day ago
Ghosted & Misunderstood: The Challenges of Finding Real ENM Matches
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by 82throwitallaway
1 day ago
Perimenopause driving high libido and desire to try ENM?
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by lickmypeach76
3 days ago
Odd question
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by MrsCrowley79
3 days ago
It's not for us, right?
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by Remote-Sun3894
3 days ago
I want enm but my other half isn’t sure what should I do?
to r/ENM by Morbid_plantmom
3 days ago
Rant about testing
to r/ENM by That_Acc0unt2
4 days ago
Advice wanted
Question
to r/ENM by ChadSexman
4 days ago
Partner won’t tell man she’s dating that she is ENM
to r/ENM by obi-juan111
4 days ago
She’s not Bi
Struggling
to r/ENM by Island_Mama_bear
5 days ago
Boyfriend just moved and is on dating apps but not staying ENM or Poly on his profile.
to r/ENM by Specialist_Screen539
5 days ago
Taking a break from ENM
to r/ENM by RadientRebel
5 days ago
Struggling with monogamy/lack of intimacy with partner
to r/ENM by Lower-Canary-554
6 days ago
Life is complicated
to r/ENM by Pringle_licker
6 days ago
Adding FWB relationship to our marriage
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by tvc12386
1 week ago
Seeking Advice
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by Interesting_College5
1 week ago
Help with new relationship
to r/ENM by Vampire_Slay3r
1 week ago
Why am I turned off by his need for sex?
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by Critical-Business-50
1 week ago
I love my wife should she get a hall pass?
Advice wanted
to r/ENM by slut-witch
1 week ago
Partner and I took the first step last night, now where do we go?
Advice wanted