r/ENM
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a safe discussion sphere for ethical non monogamy. nudes and erotica not permitted.

ENM Moderators

Last updated: 09/18/2024
• mxmnull added 4 years ago
• mstarrbrannigan added 4 years ago (also mods r/TalesFromAdultStores, r/notlikeotherguys, r/coolpeoplepod, r/shitfromabutt)

ENM Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• No lewds or nudes

There's plenty of places to go if you want to show off. This is a place for discussion.

• "Thirst" ain't cool.

Seriously. This is a place of discussion, learning, and growth. Keep it in your pants.

• No policing others' poly

If their version of ENM does not match your version of ENM, it's not your place to shout them down. Discussions will be civil, damn it.

• No erotica

If a story gets a little steamy in the course of a discussion, that's fine, but we're not an erotica forum. Excessively sexual writing will be removed.

• Doxxers get booted.

If you share someone's real world information, you're out and you don't get back in.

• sexism ain't cool either

I don't care who hurt you. Sexism won't be tolerated. And if you're one of those people who are adamant there's only two genders, you should go ahead and leave now...

• Don't be a troll

Don't come in here just to cause others grief. ENM can be an extremely sensitive topic for a lot of people, and being a hostile fuck is not going to be tolerated.

• No posts looking for hook ups

This is a place for discussion. No posts about looking for hookups allowed. If a user messages you unsolicited because of a post you made, please notify mods and they will be banned.

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