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Welcome to r/codependency! We're a community of redditors who've become aware of/are wondering if they are developing signs of codependency. We're all at different points in our healing, please come with open ears and open hearts.

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You’re healing to be able to handle joy…

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You are good enough

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Was sent this today. hits home

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PSA: Codependency left untreated, might lead to having a cynical outlook on life and being in a constant state of anger over unmet needs

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Saw in another sub, but fits here perfectly too.

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Something from “codependent no more” that really stuck with me

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My journey with celibacy (no sex & no relationships) and how it's healed my codependency

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One codependent’s love song.

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Title of my sex tape

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I'm (34M) reading 'Anxiously Attached' and I realized I have no inner nurturer.

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Hope it gives you all a chuckle 😂

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Gotta love that self doubt

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I violated my mother's religion in front of her

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Does anyone else find breaking up with a partner excruciatingly painful, like more than it should be considering you are the breaker upper?

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A page from the book “The Codependency Recovery Plan” by Krystal Mazzola 🤍

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r/Codependency 3 years ago

Walking away is HARD, even after years of therapy, but it can be done.

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My codependency has been kicking my ass lately. Going to (in person) coda meetings hasn’t really helped. Not sure how to stop feeling so overwhelmed by loneliness.

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Rough Day

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r/Codependency 3 years ago

Reading codependent no more and needing more info on communication help. I often find I “don’t say what I mean, don’t mean what I say and don’t know what I mean”

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r/Codependency 3 years ago

Insightful list for me, happy to see I'm relating more to Open System characteristics

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Why do I need continuous validation from men?

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A Lesson in Choosing Yourself

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Are co-dependents usually also sex addicts?

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