I'm (34M) reading 'Anxiously Attached' and I realized I have no inner nurturer.

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comealiveatnite is looking for a male

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I have been in serious long term relationships since I was 16. I was always more avoidant in order to keep my women obsessed. Well I actually fell in love and became an anxious mess. She broke up with me and I am a total wreck even after 6 weeks. I have literally zero self regulation. I close my eyes to imagine a living accepting figure and there's nothing. I miss having a gf. I'm in coda meetings, have 2 therapists, medication, signed up for groups, go to church again, read, dated, watch, I mean I've done literally everything. This hit me like a ton of bricks and I'm sobbing in a coffee shop. Anyone have any experience or advice?

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