I just had to celebrate my win today in therapy! I found a kink affirm therapist who is helping me work out some internal feelings about wanting to explore BDSM and kink culture.

Today I felt like I broke down the first barrier. I was able to say BDSM in my session and not feel ashamed! I then built upon this win by also discussing that I would like to understand my kinks and be able to build the confidence to be me.

I feel empowered to admit I like ( or at least want to like) BDSM. I realize from lurking around on this subreddit that it's something to be celebrated, not shamed. I am just doing what makes me happy.

Today was a good day!