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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by youareme5

1 year ago

We separated but not really. I’m so lost. I don’t know what to do anymore.

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Anyone else get dark thoughts?

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Is saying “I love you” supposed to still feel gross?

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1 year ago

Is This Normal?

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by youareme5

1 year ago

MC starts Wednesday and I’m terrified

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by SilentOwlz

1 year ago

Thank You - Working on R

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What are some first steps to reconciliation?

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by SilentOwlz

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can we and how do we?

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I hate surprises now

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Throwaway0019294

1 year ago

How do you know if the relationship is worth fighting for?

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Throwaway0019294

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I just need to vent, I'm sorry feel free to ignore

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Do any other WSs put down there BS for trying to better themselves?

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Wtf is up with the stupidest triggers

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Thank you

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AITA?

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I told my WW I wanted a divorce.

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Was anyone else terrified to start IC?

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by go_to_sleep_already

1 year ago

Bad nightmare

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1 year ago

dealing with anger

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by go_to_sleep_already

1 year ago

does anybody think this all can cause ptsd-like symptoms?

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Throwaway0019294

1 year ago

I don't know what to do

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I think I'm going through hysterical bonding

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need someone to tell me if i’m overthinking

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found tinder on WS’s phone

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How do you cope with intrusive thoughts?

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