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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. Reconciliation peer support is emotional and practical support between people who share the common experience of reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Sea-Entrepreneur-923
2 weeks ago
I fucked up and now my husband wants a divorce
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by baby-Ella
2 weeks ago
Is there ANYBODY on this thread that has a positive/semi-positive outcome after infidelity?
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by DoesNotTrustEasily
2 weeks ago
How do I accept Iā€™ve chosen to be in a relationship with someone Iā€™ll never trust again?
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by GlitteringReplyDrRN
2 weeks ago
So he has to take a trip with the work wife. We are 7 months after dday
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by autogeneratedus
1 month ago
Self care advice
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by froginabogguy
1 month ago
wrote a letter to AP
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by SoftDoughnut7963
1 month ago
WP won't say anything bad about AP
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Strawberry_Sun214
1 month ago
Seeking advice: supporting BP pain and acting "normal"
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by runningupthathill78
2 weeks ago
I don't want to "work" on this anymore
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by autogeneratedus
2 months ago
D day 2, 1 month after D day 1, are we finished?
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Fantastic_Ebb_5035
2 months ago
PA due to insecurity about sexuality
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Fantastic_Ebb_5035
2 months ago
Iā€™m not strong enough for PAā€™s ā€œrelapsesā€
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Fantastic_Ebb_5035
2 months ago
Resestablishing boundaries
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Affectionate_Ant7194
3 months ago
Feeling gaslit from my wayward partner
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Fantastic_Ebb_5035
2 months ago
Support groups?
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Fantastic_Ebb_5035
2 months ago
Family finding out about affair
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Fantastic_Ebb_5035
2 months ago
Do you tell OBP?
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by IsItTimeToLetGo-
3 months ago
We can't agree on this, even though we did before.
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Fantastic_Ebb_5035
2 months ago
Have we finally gotten over the hill?
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by natnat111
3 months ago
Canā€™t get the spark back (5 years later)
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by YoYoManGoesUpandDown
2 months ago
Can't decide next move
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by merpingainteasy
2 months ago
He wants to leaveā€¦
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by littlelebowski2023
11 hours ago
About a year after DDay feeling sometimes better sometimes not that good
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by Active-Squirrel-7390
3 months ago
Boyfriend cheated on me. Iā€™m 5mnths post partum and not clear on how I feel
to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity by OdinsRavens80
3 months ago
8 months into R, update