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AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. Reconciliation peer support is emotional and practical support between people who share the common experience of reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.
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Posted by
IsItTimeToLetGo-
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40%
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10 months
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Yes
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63
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11
Comment Karma
52
Profile updated: 3 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
4 days ago
1 month ago
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Sea-Entrepreneur-923
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0%
Disabled 2 weeks ago
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
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No
Total Karma
182
Link Karma
126
Comment Karma
56
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Disabled
Wayward Considering R
1 month ago
3 comments
1 month ago
Posted by
baby-Ella
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60%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
426
Link Karma
191
Comment Karma
220
Profile updated: 1 hour ago
1 month ago
1 comment
1 month ago
Posted by
DoesNotTrustEasily
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40%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
701
Link Karma
115
Comment Karma
586
Profile updated: 1 hour ago
1 month ago
1 comment
1 month ago
Posted by
GlitteringReplyDrRN
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50%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,138
Link Karma
152
Comment Karma
986
Profile updated: 1 hour ago
1 month ago
2 comments
2 months ago
Posted by
autogeneratedus
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
3 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,078
Link Karma
71
Comment Karma
1,007
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 2 months ago
2 months ago
2 months ago
Posted by
froginabogguy
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50%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
862
Link Karma
100
Comment Karma
762
Profile updated: 3 days ago
2 months ago
1 comment
2 months ago
Posted by
SoftDoughnut7963
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50%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,621
Link Karma
326
Comment Karma
1,295
Profile updated: 3 days ago
2 months ago
1 comment
2 months ago
Posted by
Strawberry_Sun214
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
5 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
151
Link Karma
7
Comment Karma
144
Profile updated: 3 days ago
2 months ago
1 comment
1 month ago
Posted by
runningupthathill78
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
5 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
8,325
Link Karma
4,529
Comment Karma
3,796
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 1 month ago
2 months ago
6 comments
2 months ago
Posted by
autogeneratedus
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
3 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,078
Link Karma
71
Comment Karma
1,007
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 2 months ago
2 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
Fantastic_Ebb_5035
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
211
Link Karma
172
Comment Karma
39
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
Fantastic_Ebb_5035
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
211
Link Karma
172
Comment Karma
39
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
Fantastic_Ebb_5035
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
211
Link Karma
172
Comment Karma
39
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
Affectionate_Ant7194
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
33
Link Karma
10
Comment Karma
23
Profile updated: 12 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
2 comments
3 months ago
Posted by
Fantastic_Ebb_5035
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
211
Link Karma
172
Comment Karma
39
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
Fantastic_Ebb_5035
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
211
Link Karma
172
Comment Karma
39
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
Fantastic_Ebb_5035
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
211
Link Karma
172
Comment Karma
39
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
IsItTimeToLetGo-
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
10 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
63
Link Karma
11
Comment Karma
52
Profile updated: 3 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
Fantastic_Ebb_5035
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
211
Link Karma
172
Comment Karma
39
Profile updated: 17 hours ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
natnat111
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
6 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
14,406
Link Karma
5,334
Comment Karma
8,920
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago
3 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
YoYoManGoesUpandDown
Account Strength
10%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
74
Link Karma
53
Comment Karma
21
Profile updated: 5 days ago
4 months ago
1 comment
3 months ago
Posted by
merpingainteasy
Account Strength
80%
Account Age
7 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
349
Link Karma
229
Comment Karma
120
Profile updated: 5 days ago
4 months ago
1 comment
1 week ago
Posted by
littlelebowski2023
Account Strength
10%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
24
Link Karma
11
Comment Karma
13
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
4 months ago
3 months ago
Posted by
Active-Squirrel-7390
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
27
Link Karma
14
Comment Karma
13
Profile updated: 23 hours ago
4 months ago
1 comment