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Niche Gray-area Relationship Patterns

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r/polyamory 2 weeks ago

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Why is everyone named Aspen or Birch?

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r/polyamory 4 weeks ago

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I'm (28F) having a really hard time with my partner's (28M) new partner and I don't really know why

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r/polyamory 1 month ago

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Looking for good resources to help work through jealousy

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r/polyamory 2 months ago

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How do you handle mismatched ENM styles?

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r/polyamory 5 months ago

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Is this fair or callous?

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r/polyamory 7 months ago

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Spouse doesn’t care who they have sex with, me or other partner, and I’m hurt

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r/polyamory 9 months ago

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Partner hosting their partner for an overnight at our house while I’m home

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r/polyamory 9 months ago

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Ok in polyamory, but Husband‘s partner, too close?

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r/polyamory 9 months ago

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Where did you all meet your partners?

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Different relationships have different energies? Asking for some help.

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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How long did it take you to be fully comfortable with polyamory and what was the hardest part in your journey?

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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I'm wondering if a potential partner is really poly or if he just opened his marriage to try to save it

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Gradual Meta introductions?

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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So like, where do we meet people?

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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First time deeply in love with a 2nd person: struggling with feelings.

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Festival

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Looking for Feedback on Traveling Solo while partner is away

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Questions about dating as poly

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Should I support my nibling through a messy V relationship, or stay out of it?

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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How do you balance your time?

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Why is good communication so difficult to find in this community?

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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my hinge uninvited me to a trip bc of an insecure meta — so i ended it

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Why is polyamory seen as lesser than monogamy?

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r/polyamory 10 months ago

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Cuddling

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