Account must be older than 10 days in order to post or comment. Karma must be higher than -50.

This subreddit is 18+. If you are under eighteen, do not post or stay in this community. You will be banned.

Account must be older than 10 days in order to post or comment. Karma must be higher than 10.

This subreddit is 18+. If you are under eighteen, do not post or stay in this community. You will be banned.

This is a seller-free subreddit, and no users who create and sell content are able to participate.

We use a moderation tool provided by Reddit which flags accounts suspected of being created in order to evade bans - if your profile is flagged with a "high probability" you will be banned.

For safety and privacy reasons we do not allow the sharing or personal or identifying information, including but not limited to:

• Real names or nicknames
  
• Phone/mobile numbers
  
• Addresses or places of employment
  
• Email addresses or social media usernames (Kik, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, Discord, Instagram or external app profiles).

Your post does not have the level of quality requiremetns:

• R4R post tags: Choose most appropriate gender title tags when posting - see full list on wiki
  
• R4R posts: Include your age, or age range
  
• R4R posts: Must relate to the nature of this community, no solo dating post (i.e. no M4F)
  
• R4R posts: Single male limits (see Rule 9)
  
• All posts: Post body >200 characters with clear purpose. Low effort posts are removed.
  
• All posts: Choose appropriate post flair
  
• All posts: Do not crossposts

Only post as your authentic self - impersonation or posting on the behalf of others is not permitted.

If posting on-behalf/with partners, ensure you have their informed consent before sharing/requesting any contact here. This includes 'wife pic trading', organising threesomes etc.

Fraudulent posting, bait and switch requests, or any other situations regarding catfishing with your actual intentions will incur a ban (e.g. posting for friends and then sending someone dick pics instead privately).

This is not a GW subreddit and we do not accept stand alone photos.

If you would like to attach a photo with your post, please see this article on how to do that: https://www.reddit.com/r/Melbourneswingers/comments/vq5lh3/how_to_post_images/

Males Posting Dick picks only will be banned from participation directly.

This is not a community for shaming anyone. Keep it positive and open, even if someone’s preferences are not yours.

Asking for someone to contact you ("DM/PM Me" or similar) to posts that are not r4r (e.g. Advice, Discussion, etc) will result in a ban.

No sexism, misogyny, racism, homophobia, bullying, harassing, ad hominem posts, or rudeness will be tolerated.

Also, no discussions promoting potentially violent or unsafe acts

Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.

Advertising, self promotional acts or requesting any services that commonly include an exchange of money is prohibited and will result in a ban. This includes promotion via sites like onlyfans etc.

Spam is not be tolerated and may result in a ban.

Spam may be considered any of the following:

• Posting R4R posts more frequently than once per 72h
  
• Posting the same/similar requests frequently
  
• Repetitive posts and comments that consist of 'dm me', 'message me' or 'just ask me' (low effort)
  
• Posting veiled attempts for profile followers or external app subscribers
  
• Promoting other social media groups, subreddits or chat groups
  
• Posting a photo only without textual content (See Rule 8)

Photos and videos are a fabulous way to highlight a Success Story, to emphasise a R4R post, etc.

But do not simply post a photo with no context, without comment or reason for engaging the community. Please visit our friends at r/GWMelbourne fro pure picture and video posting without context.

For photo only post: use r/GWMelbourne instead.

all other posting requirements in rule 3 apply.

Single male R4R must relate to the nature of the community meaning be in relation to swinging or polyamory. If you are simply looking for a 'bang', use r/r4rMelbourne instead.

R4R post must adhere to the posting quality guidelines.

Excessive posts deemed spam will be removed, do not duplicate post already posted on r4rMelbourne and do not include a solo dick pic.

The moderators of this subreddit may remove or restrict posts and comments, and ban participants. Users have the right of recourse to appeal bans and seek more details about removals.