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Moderators

Updated Oct 31, 2024
u/fading_reality Removed
Added 5 years ago • Removed 23 hours ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/BDSMerotica
u/Theegravedigger Active
Added 5 years ago
Also moderates: r/BDSMcommunity, r/KINK, r/bdsmfaq
u/prettykittyjetcity Active
Added 4 years ago
u/SilkenClaws Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/femdompersonals, r/submissivemen, r/femdomsanctuary
u/personals_helper Active
Added 3 years ago
u/subwoofer82 Active
Added 2 years ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/BDSMcommunity, r/BDSMerotica, r/BDSMnot4newbies, and 2 more...
u/Unlikely_Masquerade Active
Added 2 years ago
Also moderates: r/femdompersonals, r/submissivemen
u/ModeratelyUsefulBot Removed
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u/TeaDrinkingThrowaway Removed
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u/PMmeYourNoodz Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/beautifulbutt
u/BetterSpot8691 Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/MommydomPersonals, r/neworleansgonewild
u/Brownie_Please Active
Added 1 year ago
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u/philo-foxy Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/flr
u/JustOneAgain Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/Roughanal, r/Roughsex, r/Dominated, r/AssFucking, and 12 more...
u/Obviousbob1 Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 23 hours ago
u/ZealousidealTree5958 Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 23 hours ago
u/Bagelman216 Active
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u/Irregardless_Even Removed
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u/scorchy38 Removed
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u/StatusComet Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 7 months ago
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u/seeker__82 Removed
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u/nUUUUU_yaaaSSSS Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 23 hours ago
u/Spongey_ankles Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 23 hours ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/HumiliationBDSM, r/BDSMcommunity, r/Femdom
u/Fluffychipmonk1 Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/OrgasmTorture, r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/Spanking, and 2 more...
u/brokendoll1791 Removed
Added 9 months ago • Removed 23 hours ago
Also moderates: r/shibarirope, r/bdsm, r/Spanking, r/Domestic_Discipline, r/Femdom
u/Early-Apartment-9250 Active
Added 8 months ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/Spanking, r/BDSMerotica
u/Blackdeathspeedmetal Active
Added 8 months ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/Spanking
u/CynicalPlatapus Active
Added 8 months ago
Also moderates: r/Femdom, r/bdsm, r/BDSMcommunity, r/ghostnipples, r/Roughsex, and 1 more...
u/BottMcBotFace Active
Added 2 months ago
Also moderates: r/bdsm

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Rule #1: 18+ only

  • Anyone found to be under 18 will have their content removed and permanently banned from our subreddit family.
  • Content of underage people are not allowed in ANY context. (pictures, videos, drawings, stories, etc.)
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R1 - 18+ only

Must be 18+ to post here

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Rule #2: Proper post formatting

  • All titles must begin with "Numerical age [Flair] #Location" (#Online is okay too)
  • All posts must be properly flaired with a post-flair that matches the [Flair] in your typed title. If you don't know what flair is or how to use one, check out our flairing guide here.
  • All posts must include a minimum of 50 words of thoughtful description of yourself and what you're looking for.
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R2a - proper formatting

Post title must follow format AGE [X4Y] #LOCATION

Post text must be 50+ words

Post flair must match title flair

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Rule #3: Be excellent to each other

  • No name calling or personal attacks
  • No homophobia, sexism, racism, bigotry of any kind.
  • No explicit or implied threats.
  • No doxxing/outing/name-dropping.
  • No shaming people for their kinks (or lack thereof).
  • No callout posts, naming and shaming people (Reddit users or otherwise).

    Kinky role play is not the same as real life. Respect others here or you will be banned.
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R2b - post with honesty and integrity (no catfishing)

Posters must accurately represent who they are.

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Rule #4: No drama/baiting/trolling

  • No MGTOW, TRP, incel, etc. type of content.
  • No malicious baiting/trolling or purposefully inciting arguments.
  • No purposefully inflammatory posts.
  • No linking to posts or bringing up incidents from subreddits outside our subreddit family to complain about or brigade.
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R3 - be excellent to each other

No racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, hate, bigotry, intolerance of any kind.

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Rule #5: No advertising

  • No spam/self promotion.
  • No linking to personal blogs, paid content, subscription sites, or other self-promotion
  • No advertising outside chat groups (kik, skype, discord, whatsapp, etc) More info on this and our stance on Discord here.
  • No personal contact information (kik, skype, email, phone, etc)
  • Financial exchange of any kind is strictly prohibited. This includes, but is not limited to, findom, pro-dommes, and sugar arrangements.
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R4 - no drama/baiting/trolling

Do not complain brigade troll incite arguments bring in drama from other subreddits.

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Rule #6: Posting frequency is limited to once every 7 days.

  • Subsequent posts will be removed. Repeat offenders will be banned.
  • Deleting and reposting to spam the new-feed will result in a temporary ban.
  • Using multiple accounts in an attempt to get around this will result in all accounts being permanently banned.
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R5a - no commercial advertising

No advertising companies, memberships accounts, social media accounts, chat servers etc

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Rule #7: All standard reddit rules apply

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R5b - no findom/handouts

No asking for or offering money, compensation, flights, hotel stays, rent, food, shopping, sugar, findom, tributes etc. in the post OR IN DM'S/CHATS

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Rule #8: Mods will use their discretion

  • Mods will take things on a case by case basis and remove posts/comments and ban users at their discretion. We reserve the right to use our own judgment and ban anyone from the subreddit or entire subreddit family if we view you as being detrimental to the community, regardless of if you break any specifically stated rule.
  • When the mods say to do something, stop something, or let something go, do it.
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R6a - post once per 7 days

One post per 7 days (168 hours) only. Timezone irrelevant, this is a timer countdown. Excessive posting within 7 days will result in automated bans.

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Rule #2a: Proper post formatting, age must be in title

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R6b - no multi-accounting allowed

One account per person, period. Do not use multiple accounts. Do not coerce others to post on your behalf.

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Rule #2b: Proper post formatting, [X4Y] flair must be in title

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R6c - ban evasion not allowed

Ban evasion not allowed. If you have been banned, you are not welcome back.

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Rule #2c: Proper post formatting, #LOCATION must be in title

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R7 - all standard sitewide reddit rules apply

All standard sitewide reddit rules apply

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Rule #5a: No advertising, post asking for money

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R8 - moderator discretion

Moderator discretion

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Rule #5: No advertising, author asks for money in DM's

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to r/BDSMpersonals by madeupmarie
11 minutes ago
36 [F4M] #online or voice chat. Degrade and control me
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by Impressive-Piano8663
1 hour ago
20 [F4M] #Philippines Any asian/latino/white or anymuscular sl*t who loves to submit and would loved to be edged or receive JOI
F4M F4M
in Pines, Philippines
to r/BDSMpersonals by yankmytail
1 hour ago
23 [F4M] #allentown pa- looking for a sadist to make me cry
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in Allentown, PA
to r/BDSMpersonals by rileighsmiles
1 hour ago
18 [F4M] #Online - Let's play and talk dirty
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by ScAP3Godd355
1 hour ago
28 [F4A] #online RP : Socially Awkward, Sadistic Woman looking for someone who is into scent play or being bathed, among other kinks...
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by ollie_oxenfr33
2 hours ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy switchy sub looking for le switchy daddy
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/BDSMpersonals by rileighsmiles
2 hours ago
18 [F4M] #Online - Let's play and talk dirty
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by rileighsmiles
3 hours ago
18 [F4M] #Online - Let's play and talk dirty
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by anxiousdruid
3 hours ago
22 [f4m] #ohio - goth sub looking for Dom, Daddy, and partner.
F4M F4M
in Ohio, OH
to r/BDSMpersonals by GoddessHoneyT
3 hours ago
32 [F4M] #IRL#WI/IL - Submissive Princess in need of Dom.
F4M F4M
in Illinois
to r/BDSMpersonals by Head-Explanation4439
5 hours ago
18 [F4M] #Online - Bored at Home Looking for Fun Chats
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by Head-Explanation4439
6 hours ago
18 [F4M] #Online - Bored at Home Looking for Fun Chats
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by itshazelxoxo
6 hours ago
19 [F4M] #usa #online on my balcony right now and..
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in USA
to r/BDSMpersonals by gatorbandlove
7 hours ago
25 [F4M] #Online - submissive feminist looking for more conservative older Dom
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by cosmeticshroom03
7 hours ago
21 [F4A] #PA - Little with Brat tendencies looking for brat tamer/mommy or daddy dom or couple.
F4A F4A
in Pennsylvania
to r/BDSMpersonals by FewHope7167
7 hours ago
25 [F4A] #Online Dumb whore looking to be destroyed
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by Head-Explanation4439
7 hours ago
18 [F4M] #Online - I’m bored in the bed right now ,wanna sext?
F4M F4M
in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by fashionablekazoo
7 hours ago
18 [F4A] #online #florida | submissive slut looking for a sadist to abuse her
F4A F4A
in Florida
to r/BDSMpersonals by SayuraKi
7 hours ago
19 [F4M] #Online drunk and horny girl looking for a daddy to abuse me
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by Head-Explanation4439
8 hours ago
18 [F4M] #Online - Bored at Home Looking for Fun Chats
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by DemandPretend5916
8 hours ago
32 [F4M] #EastTennessee #USA - ambitious & childfree submissive seeking Ambitious & Childfree Dominant Counterpart for world ruling
F4M F4M
in Tennessee
to r/BDSMpersonals by AwkwardCall4313
8 hours ago
32 [F4M] #online Gentle Domme for Longterm Younger Sub
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in online
to r/BDSMpersonals by cynicalegirl
8 hours ago
20 [F4F] #Florida #Online - Domme seeking her princess to pamper & adore!
F4F F4F
in Florida
to r/BDSMpersonals by SubstantialAd1264
9 hours ago
21 (F4F)#USA bratty sub feeling a dommy mommy to help me behave
F4F F4F
in USA
to r/BDSMpersonals by iAmDomme
9 hours ago
26 [F4F] #online Experienced domme with creative ideas for tasks
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in online