Hello! I’m a curvy, 5'6" blue-eyed sub (UK size 16 with a mum tum—so if that’s not your taste, best not DM me). I currently have blue-black hair, a sharp mind, and a dark sense of humor. I’m looking for an experienced Dominant who knows how to wield both intelligence and authority in a meaningful and exciting dynamic.

About Me:

Passions: Gaming, chess, history, metal/classical music, and (of course) complaining about how much better I would run the world. I’m a proud nerd who loves deep conversations and a good mental challenge.

Lifestyle: Emotionally monogamous but sexually polygamous—I’m seeking trust, connection, and fun without heavy emotional commitment right now. I’m open to an occasional casual 3rd, but I prefer a main dynamic that’s just you and me.

Aesthetic: I’ve got a pretty great bum (if I do say so myself), and I dress somewhere between gamer/emo/goth. I love men who appreciate a strong, confident woman they can turn into a needy sub in the bedroom. 😜

About You:

The Basics: You’re at least 6 feet tall (sorry, I’m tall-ish and like to feel little and submissive), strong (dad bods over gym bods!), and know how to make a suit look good. Bonus if you’re well-endowed—I might have a few fantasies about that. 😉

Your Mind: Intelligent, emotionally mature, and playful—someone who can dominate mentally as well as physically. You know how to engage, lead, and build trust.

Your Lifestyle: Preferably based in England, single or in an open relationship (absolutely no secret marriages). You’re confident in who you are and ready to connect on a meaningful level.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m after a casual but fulfilling D/s dynamic—one where trust and chemistry are at the core. Ideally, you’ve been doing this for a while and know how to create a safe but exhilarating environment for exploration. Absolutely not looking for a Daddy Dom—that’s not my thing. I need a caring Sadist who can challenge me mentally and physically.

I have a huge number of kinks, many that are somewhat unexplored, but my main ones are anal, orgasm denial/control, bondage, spanking, impact play (obviously), and CNC.

Important Notes:

I can’t host (parenting life!), but I’m happy to travel or meet halfway for meet-ups while maintaining an online dynamic in between. I’m also looking for someone flexible who understands that family life sometimes takes precedence and that there may be times I have to pause the dynamic if life gets too hectic. I would prefer you to be a parent as well for this reason, as then we both understand!

If this sounds like you, send me a thoughtful message, and let’s start chatting. 😉 (Low-effort DMs will be ignored—I can always tell when you copy-paste).