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Subreddit Rules
18+ Users only
Only users age 18 and over can join this community, submit posts and comment on posts.
This community is not for showing off your body, it is for meeting someone.
This community is not for teasers and showoffs who only want to get comments and karma by displaying photos of their body. R4RCalifornia is for people to meet others for a specific reason, like dating, hookups, etc. If the title of your post does not tell us who you want and what for, it will be deleted..
This community is not for showing off your body, it is for meeting someone IRL.
Please do NOT ignore the rules in this community. Ignorance of the rules is not an acceptable reason for violating any rule AND IT WILL GET YOU PERMABANNED. This community is not for teasers and showoffs who only want to get comments and karma by displaying photos of their body. r4rCalifornia is for people to meet others for a specific reason, like dating, hookups, etc. If the title and the body text of your post does not tell us who you want and what for, it will be deleted.
Include your age, tag, location, and what you're looking for in the title of your post.
Posts must have a title & a body. Use common sense, make an effort, don't make the Reader guess. Body of your post MUST be at least 2 paragraphs. Your title MUST include your age, TAG & location. Example: "22 [F4M] Stockton - Pretty lass seeks handsome lad for making dreams come true. must live close to me." Examples of tags: [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [T4M], [M4A], [F4A], [T4A].
Do not abbreviate locations. LA is not acceptable. Bay Area is not acceptable. NorCal and SoCal are not acceptable.
Post titles must include location for meetups, or online for online activities, or both
If you're looking to meet, put your location in the title or if you only want a chat partner, put online only.
Post titles must include location for meetups, or online for online activities, but NOT both.
If you're looking to meet, put your location in the title or if you only want a chat partner, put online only. Do NOT use both. If your title includes anything like "City/Online", it will be deleted. Do not generalize your location. If you live in San Francisco, do not write Bay Area. If you live in Sacramento, do not write Norcal or Northern California. If you live in Los Angeles, do not write Southern California.
Post titles must NOT include "online only" or "chat" or anything similar.
r4rCalifornia is for meeting new people and making friends IRL. Put your location in the title and describe who you want to meet. If your title includes anything like "Online", or "chat", it will be deleted. Do not generalize your location. If you live in San Francisco, do not write Bay Area. If you live in Sacramento, do not write Norcal or Northern California. If you live in Los Angeles, do not write Southern California. Do not abbreviate your location. LA, socal, Orange County are not allowed
Post titles & bodies must NOT include "online only" or "chat" or anything similar.
r4rCalifornia is for meeting new people and making friends IRL. Put your location in the title and describe who you want to meet. If your title includes anything like "Online", or "chat", it will be deleted. Do not generalize your location. If you live in San Francisco, do not write Bay Area. If you live in Sacramento, do not write Norcal or Northern California. If you live in Los Angeles, do not write Southern California. Do not abbreviate your location. LA, socal, Orange County are not allowed
To join r4rCalifornia you must live in the state of California and you MUST be 18 or older.
This community is for residents of California only. There are very few Personals communities for Californians only. Posts can only be written by residents of California. Also, this is an adult community containing posts and comments by adults for adults. If you are not at least 18 years of age, do not join our community.
To use r4rCalifornia you must live in the state of California, be at least 18, have a proper profile
This community is for residents of California only. Posts and comments can only be written by residents of California who are 18 or over. This is an adult community containing posts and comments by adults for adults. Violation and ignorance of any rule in this community can and will earn you a Permaban.
Your Reddit profile can NOT contain anything that violates the rules of this community. No off-Reddit links, no chat websites, no personal info like a phone number, street address, etc.
No Onlyfans, no "sugar", no exchanges of money or anything else.
No selling of any kind. No "sugar daddies" or "sugar mommies" mentioned in this community. No exchanges for money, goods, or services. No Onlyfans or similar activities in r4rCalifornia or on your Reddit profile.
No Onlyfans, no "sugar", no exchanges of money or anything else. Use English only.
No selling of any kind. No "sugar daddies" or "sugar mommies" mentioned in this community. No exchanges for money, goods, or services. Do not mention or refer to "customer(s)", "tips", "charge(s)" or any other word that indicated selling. No Onlyfans or similar activities in r4rCalifornia or on your Reddit profile. Please use English only in your posts and comments.
No Onlyfans, no "sugar" and no references to money on your post or profile. Use English only.
No selling of any kind. No "sugar daddies" or "sugar mommies" mentioned in this community. No exchanges for money, goods, or services. Do not mention or refer to "customer(s)", "tips", "charge(s)" or any other word that indicated selling. No Onlyfans or similar activities io r4rCalifornia. All of this includes your post comments and your Reddit profile too. No references to off-Reddit sites or social media like Telegram or Snapchat. Please use English only in your posts and comments.
No Onlyfans, no "sugar" and no references to money on your post or your profile. Use English only.
No selling of any kind. No "sugar daddies" or "sugar mommies" mentioned in this community. No exchanges for money, goods, or services. Do not mention or refer to "customer(s)", "tips", "charge(s)" or any other word that indicated selling. No Onlyfans or similar activities in r4rCalifornia. All of this includes your post comments and your Reddit profile too. No references to off-Reddit sites or social media like Telegram or Snapchat. Please use English only in your posts and comments.
No displays of hate, harassment or publicly calling someone a fake/scam. No trolls allowed.
Please be nice to each other and show respect for the feelings of others. We want no negative vibes here in our community. Hate mongering, harrassment or public accusations of fakery or the use of scams will not be tolerated here. No trolling is allowed here. ANY violations of these negative actions will result in instant permaban. If you have a problem with a member, a post or a comment, contact a moderator.
No displays of hate, harassment or calling someone a fake/scam. No trolls or pic collectors allowed.
Please be nice to each other and show respect for the feelings of others. We want no negative vibes here in our community. Hate mongering, harrassment or public accusations of fakery or the use of scams will not be tolerated here.
No trolling is allowed here. Do NOT ask for photos or "verification" in your post or your Reddit profile. ANY violations of these negative actions will result in instant permaban. If you have a problem with a member, a post or a comment, contact a moderator.
No posting of images not your own original content.
Post original content only. Posts containing images, GIFs or links to such that are of any person not yourself are forbidden. If you post content of yourself and others you MUST have permission to use images of anyone else that is not you.
No posting of images not your own content. If a photo contains more than you, permission MUST exist.
You may post photos AND description in the post's body. Photos are permitted on your post if the body of your post is at least 3 sentences. Post original content that is yours only. Posts containing images, GIFs or links to such that are of any person not yourself are forbidden. If you post content of yourself and others you MUST have permission to use images of anyone else that is not you. In the body of your post, say that you have the permission of the other person(s) to use that photo.
No catfishing, posting links to other sites or any harmful links. No personal information.
Do not catfish. Asking others for photos or personal information will not be tolerated. Do not post or use links to other sites. Do not post personal information like names, addresses, phone numbers, etc. in your title, your comments or your Reddit profile. All of this includes your Reddit profile as well. No references to off-Reddit sites or social chat sites like Telegram, Facebook or Snapchat. Any violation of these will result in an instant permaban.
No off-Reddit chat requests. Use PM and DM only.
Use or mentioning the following in your post, on your Reddit profile or comments to other posts will earn you a permaban or get your post or comment removed: Snapchat (SC, Snap, etc.), Telegram (Tele, etc.), Discord, KIK, etc. Please stay safe and keep it on Reddit by using PM messages or DM chat on Reddit to make your plans. Use of the words "online", "chat" and anything similar in your post, comments or your Reddit profile is not permitted.
No off-Reddit chat requests. Use PM and DM only as a prelude to meeting someone IRL.
Use or mentioning the following in your post, on your Reddit profile or comments to other posts will earn you a permaban or get your post or comment removed: Snapchat (SC, Snap, etc.), Telegram (Tele, etc.), Discord, KIK, etc. Please stay safe and keep it on Reddit by using PM messages or DM chat on Reddit to make your plans. Use of the words "online", "chat" and anything similar in your post, comments or your Reddit profile is not permitted. For Chat Only posts, use "online-only" not your city.
Posting Frequency is once per 24 hours
Please do not spam this community. If you must post several times a day, you must post different photos, titles and body of each post. Otherwise, duplicate posts will be deleted. Posting frequency is 24 hours.
Posting Frequency is once per 72 hours (or 3 days).
YOU MUST READ ALL OF THE RULES BEFORE POSTING OR COMMENTING. r4rCalifornia is closely moderated. Ignorance of the rules will not be tolerated. Please do not spam this community. Posting frequency is 72 hours. or 3 days. One post in a 72-hour period is enough. Anything else is considered spam and you risk a permaban. Using an alternative Reddit membership to post spam is a no-no and will get you banned. No not hijack other members' posts or photos.
Moderators have the right to delete any post and ban any user.
Some users chose to ignore the rules of this community. Some users skirt the rules, some just bend them. Moderators review each post in this subreddit and each user's profile and activity on Reddit. The moderators will always have the right to delete a post if the spirit of that post does not match the spirit of the community.
r4rCalifornia was created for Californians who want to meet someone new, please keep your posts in-line with this statement.
You are welcome to use LOCATION FLAIRS and post photos in the body of your post.
Using a Flair will help your target audience (a new friend who lives close to you) find you. Press the "Add flair" button before you press the "Post" button. Choose the flair that is closest to your location. Blue flairs are for Southern California, tan flairs for Central California, light green flairs are for Bay Area and Sacramento areas, dark green are for farther north. Yes, you can post body text AND a photo. Write your body text and then press the "..." button next to the Markdown Editor.
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