first off, here’s me!

im a 28F, Ukrainian-American based in CA, 5’5 with dark brown hair, hazel eyes & im curvy. childfree and intend to stay that way! i work in public policy & am passionate about helping lessen the suffering of others. im a people person & i am currently on my healing journey and am looking for a long term DINK relationship!

Ages 28-39 only*

im open to relocating or for the other person to relocate to me, i love hard, and want to be able to share my love with someone else other than me (and dw, i practice daily self love and care!)

im a homebody but still really value being out of the house and in nature. i take daily walks and escape to the river all the time, and i enjoy an easy hike (especially if theres a joint and a jacuzzi at the end of it lmao). i think holding hands and getting lost in conversation while going on daily walks with a partner is an underrated love language. im a daily cannabis user so you must be 420 friendly, i dont really drink but i dont care if you do, and im not a club kinda gal, but i enjoy a good kickback.

politically im leftist - ACAB, Free Palestine, and i stand with Indigenous liberation worldwide. i have no tolerance for bullies or bigots.

the “ideal” partner for me is someone who is emotionally available (aka able to give and receive love), kind, patient, very considerate, self aware, goes to therapy, is a goofball, practices self-forgiveness, generous, and easy going. someone who intentionally runs over to hold open a door for a mom with a stroller, someone who fights for their joy, and someone who loves to love. im big on quality time, and im looking for someone to do the boring stuff with. where it doesnt feel mundane, because life with my love never is. in the words of j.cole “i wanna fold clothes for you.” consideration is the highest form of love. 💕

im seeking someone who is attentive and silly, respectful, loyal and HUMAN. im not looking for a perfect person. i dont want to date a robot. im looking for a whole person, flaws and all. mental health is real and theres no shame or judgement ever. i seek to be my persons safe space and personal heaven.

my love languages are as follows: (giving): - making a plate for my love - gift giving - listening/supporting w/o judgement - physical touch (receiving) - emotional reassurance & consideration (to be considered is to be loved!) - quality time (✨heavy on it✨) - surprises/being spoiled - being hugged/kissed from behind & receiving bear hugs🫶🏻🫂

lastly, things about me to note: -i am looking for someone who wants to talk more often than not. meaning, good morning/good night texts, voice memo’s & afternoon spontaneous calls. so, if you’re an out of sight out of mind person, we wont be a match, sorry. -i can be clingy and am quick to feel rejected. i always support you doing your thing and spending time solo or with friends and family. just communicate that you will be mia for a period of time. -i want someone who wants to take me on weekly restaurant dates. im a foodie and going out to eat is a love language lol.

also, i have 3 kitties and theyre my whole 🌎 must be an animal lover and have desire to become a cat dad.

if any of this resonated, please reach out! (with a photo please~). Can’t wait to meet you 💕