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r/polydating

1,664 subscribers
It's like /r/PolyamorousR4R but new and a little different.

Moderators

Updated Nov 9, 2024
u/jce_superbeast Active
Added 6 years ago
Also moderates: r/polyadvice

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Rule 1: Bigotry or Intolerance

Absolutely no bigotry or intolerance. This includes (but is not limited to) attacks on anyone's gender or sexual identity, racism, sexism, slut shaming, poly-shaming, mocking, and victim blaming.

Posts and comments that contain any of the above, regardless of intent, will be removed.

First offense may be a warning, but depending on the severity and the user's history in the subreddit, it may be an immediate ban. Second offense is guaranteed ban.

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Rule 2: Slurs or Personal Attacks

Posts and comments are removed for use of slurs and for personal attacks. Certain slurs are grounds for an instant ban. Some words are automatically filtered by Automoderator, for the moderators to review. We understand that different words are slurs to different people, and that's why we review everything using real people.

Personal attacks on anyone are not allowed and may result in a ban.

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Rule 3: Trolling/Concern Trolling

Of course trolling isn't allowed. But specifically, concern trolling is a no-warning ban. This includes derailing of advice and support posts, and posting poly-shaming under the guise of "concern" or "just trying to help."

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Rule 4: Being a Jerk

This rule should be self-explanatory, but in case it isn't: being aggressive towards other posters and causing irrelevant arguments may cause your comments to be removed, and if you continue it may end in a ban.

Posting attacks on the poster or the poster's partners/situation in a support thread may be ground for an immediate ban.

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to r/polydating by Megs7481
4 days ago
42/43 [MF4F] - Missouri
MF4F
in Missouri, MO
to r/polydating by Ding-dong-hello
2 months ago
40/35 [MF4F] - #Nevada - Looking for a best friend, lover, and long-term partner
MF4F
in Nevada
to r/polydating by Ding-dong-hello
2 months ago
40/35 [MF4F] - #Nevada - Looking for a long-term partner
MF4F
in Nevada
to r/polydating by slutstudnola
3 months ago
32 [FM4F] #newhampshire - Looking for my bestie
MF4F
in New Hampshire
to r/polydating by Shdw_Falcon
6 months ago
32/29 [MF4F] #Long Island, NY - Couple looking for female to date
MF4F
in New York
to r/polydating by Terrible-Ad3957
8 months ago
24mf4f we have no idea how to flirt
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to r/polydating by BeginningExisting522
9 months ago
MF4F Seeking Poly
MF4F
to r/polydating by birdmom93
1 year ago
29/36 [FM4F] #newjersey/online Looking for a woman to form a closed triad with
MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/polydating by birdmom93
1 year ago
36/29 [MF4F] #NJ/Online Looking for a woman to build a family with
MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/polydating by birdmom93
1 year ago
36/29 [MF4F] #NJ/online Looking for a person to grow our family with
MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/polydating by Ladyofthehouse88
1 year ago
35/36 [FM4F] #Chattanooga, TN very affectionate and loving couple seeking long term relationship in an equal triad
MF4F
in Chattanooga, TN
to r/polydating by Theadventurepancake
1 year ago
35 [MF4F] South Jersey/Philadelphia...Hi there, we're looking for a local third and friends :)
MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/polydating by Theadventurepancake
1 year ago
35 MF4F South Jersey/Philadelphia...Hi, we're looking for a local third :)
MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/polydating by AceAndRuby
1 year ago
[31/40][fm4f][central pa] looking for third for our relationship
MF4F
in Central, PA
to r/polydating by AceAndRuby
1 year ago
[31/40][fm4f][central pa] looking for unicorn
MF4F
in Central, PA
to r/polydating by AceAndRuby
1 year ago
[31/40][fm4f][central pa] looking for unicorn
MF4F
in Central, PA
to r/polydating by angelboocynphia
1 year ago
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29/26 [MF4F] Hampton roads, va - let's chat 😊
MF4F
in Hampton, VA
to r/polydating by deontamorgan1
1 year ago
[28M26F 4 F]
MF4F
to r/polydating by UrDemize81
1 year ago
39/32 [MF4F] from MA, looking for our girlfriend.
MF4F
in Massachusetts
to r/polydating by Zaddengo
1 year ago
MF4F
MF4F
to r/polydating by LittlePrincessPea
1 year ago
33/20 [MF4F] looking for someone to share our love and life with
MF4F
to r/polydating by kellybean2
1 year ago
MF4F #Gainesville
MF4F
in Gainesville, FL
to r/polydating by Kelli122072
1 year ago
45/35 [FM4F] Florida couple looking
MF4F
in Florida