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r/polydating

1,675 subscribers
It's like /r/PolyamorousR4R but new and a little different.

Moderators

Updated Nov 19, 2024
u/jce_superbeast Active
Added 6 years ago
Also moderates: r/polyadvice

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Rule 1: Bigotry or Intolerance

Absolutely no bigotry or intolerance. This includes (but is not limited to) attacks on anyone's gender or sexual identity, racism, sexism, slut shaming, poly-shaming, mocking, and victim blaming.

Posts and comments that contain any of the above, regardless of intent, will be removed.

First offense may be a warning, but depending on the severity and the user's history in the subreddit, it may be an immediate ban. Second offense is guaranteed ban.

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Rule 2: Slurs or Personal Attacks

Posts and comments are removed for use of slurs and for personal attacks. Certain slurs are grounds for an instant ban. Some words are automatically filtered by Automoderator, for the moderators to review. We understand that different words are slurs to different people, and that's why we review everything using real people.

Personal attacks on anyone are not allowed and may result in a ban.

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Rule 3: Trolling/Concern Trolling

Of course trolling isn't allowed. But specifically, concern trolling is a no-warning ban. This includes derailing of advice and support posts, and posting poly-shaming under the guise of "concern" or "just trying to help."

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Rule 4: Being a Jerk

This rule should be self-explanatory, but in case it isn't: being aggressive towards other posters and causing irrelevant arguments may cause your comments to be removed, and if you continue it may end in a ban.

Posting attacks on the poster or the poster's partners/situation in a support thread may be ground for an immediate ban.

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to r/polydating by jcsk12
8 hours ago
25F and 25M looking for F #Illinois
in Illinois
to r/polydating by PokiiboiiiQwQ
21 hours ago
M&M looking for a third
to r/polydating by Lake_noceda_blight
3 days ago
21m looking to be in a relationship
to r/polydating by AffectionateLead858
3 days ago
30 [M4F] Ky/USA, searching for a princess type for relationship/conversation
M4F
in Princess, KY
to r/polydating by Reasonable-Air-2521
1 week ago
46 [M4F] #Wyoming / #Mountain West -- Overthinking poly trek nerd seeks new connections
M4F
in Wyoming, WY
to r/polydating by FeatureGrouchy1082
1 week ago
M/f looking for a third
to r/polydating by Fantastic-Prune6790
2 weeks ago
31 [M4F] Orlando,fl/ online looking for a connection
M4F
to r/polydating by Laya1770
2 weeks ago
34 [F4A] Neurodivergent from Texas Seeking a Deep connection with Fun and Positive vibes!! Planes are a thing I don't care where you are.
F4A
in Texas
to r/polydating by Raiden64
2 weeks ago
[M4f] 29 Looking for a girlfriend
M4F
to r/polydating by Reasonable-Air-2521
2 weeks ago
46 [M4F] #Wyoming / #Mountain West -- Overthinking poly trek nerd seeks new connections
M4F
in Wyoming, WY
to r/polydating by tokuniyo
2 weeks ago
20 [nb4a] #tx/online - looking for friends that could develop into more
NB4A
in Texas
to r/polydating by Megs7481
2 weeks ago
42/43 [MF4F] - Missouri
MF4F
in Missouri, MO
to r/polydating by Bethany316
2 weeks ago
Non binary 4 any in nwpa
to r/polydating by ProbablyNotFBI90
2 weeks ago
34 [M4F] SC/Online
M4F
to r/polydating by throwaway231231513
2 weeks ago
30 [M4F] #Online or Northeast TN/VA/KY Intelligent, articulate, kinky, and sane nerdy male looking for a primary partner
M4F
in Tennessee
to r/polydating by Mama_Berrrr
2 weeks ago
Poly in a small town.
to r/polydating by Laya1770
3 weeks ago
34 [F4A] Neurodivergent from Texas Seeking a Deep connection with Fun and Positive vibes!! Planes are a thing I don't care where you are.
F4A
in Texas
to r/polydating by chillvibess99
3 weeks ago
24F30M Couple Looking for F
to r/polydating by Forsaken_Knee
3 weeks ago
Looking for someone to get to know maybe start a relationship
to r/polydating by kj645
3 weeks ago
32 [M4F] Anywhere - Thicc Bi Boi Seeks Nesting Partner yo have kids
M4F
to r/polydating by Laya1770
3 weeks ago
34 [F4A] I'm from Texas Seeking a Deep connection with Fun and Positive vibes!! Planes are a thing.
F4A
in Texas
to r/polydating by Icy-Mushroom461
4 weeks ago
22[f4mm] looking for online dating
F4MM
to r/polydating by Laya1770
1 month ago
34 [F4R] Deep connections & positive vibes. I don't care where you are. Planes are a thing lol 🤣
F4R
to r/polydating by Experiment-Cycle
1 month ago
23 [m4f] #arkansas - married poly guy looking for real relationship
M4F
in Kansas
to r/polydating by niseunji
1 month ago
20 [nb4a] #tx/online - looking for friends that could develop into more
NB4A
in Texas