Hey y’all….so…wife is doing her first overnight in a few months tomorrow. While each time she does it, it gets a bit easier, it’s still something that is anxiety inducing in me.

Now…that being said…I was off work today and decided to go ahead and pack up some of the things I knew she’d be wanting to take. Somehow this was calming to me.

Then, as I am trying to not think about it too much and enjoy my evening with her tonight, my mind wanders to the subject, and I had like an “aww that’s cute” moment, thinking about them hanging out and playing switch together, as my wife mentioned it was something they were excited to do together.

It made me feel happy for her. It was a fleeting moment, I’ll admit, but…is this compersion?

Edit: how can I feed this and nurture and grow this? I’m journaling about it, but is there more to do?