Sometimes swiping on profiles I’ll either see preferences for someone who’s only interested in people who are “hetero”, or people who specify “no heteros”

As someone who’s bi/pan, I find both preferences… bizarre and cringy. I swipe left on both. Who I’m attracted to isn’t anyones business as long as I’m attracted to the person I’m trying to match with.

Obvious exception I guess is if someone is looking for a specific group arrangement, but in all the cases I’ve seen it, there isn’t anything specified about group casual fun or anything.

That’s my opinion, but I’m curious what everyone else thinks about it. Is putting a limit on a potential partners orientation ok or ethical??

Edit: Thanks for all the great povs. Just to clarify, I have my preferences also, like I prefer men and women who identify as bi/pan because I feel like there’s a lot of common ground. I personally would never say I’d ONLY date bi/pan men and women because that seems like it’s reducing them to sex objects for group play. However that’s just me and my preference. Thanks again everyone

Edit 2: Sorry for the use of “bizarre and cringy”. Y’all are cool in my book now