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Different Structure Than Partner?
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Do you have a different structure than your partners? (You solo, them non hierarchical, you hierarchical, them not, etc)
I'm the mono to a polyam partner who is non hierarchical. I was asking hypothetical questions about if I decided to be polyam. They said since I seem to like hierarchy, they would expect me to make them my primary partner. Am I wrong in feeling a little put out by this? If they don't make me their primary, why would I promise them that position based on a hypothetical situation?
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