After a couple week, I just got my first matches on Feeld! I swear to god, it’s because I finally added a shirtless pic, at my girlfriend’s recommendation…

I’ve only messed with old school OKCupid (2011-2014) and Hinge before. I mostly do day game, social circle, etc. in dating.

Do y’all have any experience tips with using Feeld gracefully and intelligently? I’m asking as a fit, BDSM-loving poly man in his thirties.

I told two of my partners about the app and we’ve been getting a library of couple photos together to share with matches.

I’m curious about: profile content that sells well/is important to include, what kind of off-app communication is common and invited (i prefer to quickly move to snapchat or SMS), if any paid/premium features are really worth it, how and when to browse apps with or without a partner.

While I normally try dating offline, learning of this app is kind of exciting for groupsex opportunities and preselecting non-monogamous people. Normally all this is a first date conversation and I’m excited to know matches are already enthusiastic about some of my lifestyle/kinks, rather than just accepting them as “non-dealbreakers.”